Thoughts?

My husband is in the army, he’s separating due to his injuries. He’s currently in a holding unit but will be coming home soon in a few weeks. I just got this message from him and I am not really sure how to respond to it or how to feel about it. What do you think πŸ€”
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β€œSo I go to the track almost everyday to run and this girl also goes and we basically been like running together everyday like nothing crazy just side by side and talking but she wants my insta , I don’t think she’s weird or anything I wanted to ask u first if I could.”

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I mean I am also military and am constantly surrounded by men and wish more would be friends with me so I've felt quite isolated at time. I think this is quite respectful. But of course it depends if you already had doubts x

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Ok so he said this β€œSo when I was on the track today I was sitting down bc I was sweating I was running and she sat down next to me and she was talking a little and she put her hand like subtly on my leg and started moving it like in a way that was trying to be like she wasn’t doing it intentionally idk how to explain it but I told her I had a wife and can’t wait to go home to my wife and kids”

He told me her hand was on his leg and was moving it on his leg. I told him to create distance because that’s just weird

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β€œSo I go to the track almost everyday to run and this girl also goes and we basically been like running together everyday like nothing crazy just side by side and talking but she wants my insta , I don’t think she’s weird or anything I wanted to ask u first if I could.”

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