My husband is in the army, heβs separating due to his injuries. Heβs currently in a holding unit but will be coming home soon in a few weeks. I just got this message from him and I am not really sure how to respond to it or how to feel about it. What do you think π€
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βSo I go to the track almost everyday to run and this girl also goes and we basically been like running together everyday like nothing crazy just side by side and talking but she wants my insta , I donβt think sheβs weird or anything I wanted to ask u first if I could.β
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I mean I am also military and am constantly surrounded by men and wish more would be friends with me so I've felt quite isolated at time. I think this is quite respectful. But of course it depends if you already had doubts x

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Ok so he said this βSo when I was on the track today I was sitting down bc I was sweating I was running and she sat down next to me and she was talking a little and she put her hand like subtly on my leg and started moving it like in a way that was trying to be like she wasnβt doing it intentionally idk how to explain it but I told her I had a wife and canβt wait to go home to my wife and kidsβ
He told me her hand was on his leg and was moving it on his leg. I told him to create distance because thatβs just weird
okay where is my girly group because i know youβre hiding somewhere π
iβm looking for a little group of girls around brisbane who actually want genuine friendships β coffee/matcha dates, brunch, cute little outings, shopping, walks, dinners, playdates if you have kids, sending each other stupid reels and eventually getting to the point where we can just show up at each otherβs houses looking feral π
iβm a mum of two but you definitely donβt have to be a mum. iβd actually love a mix of girls where our entire friendship doesnβt revolve around being parents.
iβm into beauty, skincare, books, reality tv, spirituality/psychic stuff, cute outfits, y2k everything and having conversations that somehow go from completely unserious to deep life shit within five minutes.
iβm not looking for the βwe should totally catch up!!β and then never speak again type of friendship π i want my actual girls. group chat, spontaneous plans, checking in on each other, celebrating birthdays, the whole thing.
bonus points if youβre a little introverted, a little unhinged and also wondering how adults are supposed to make proper friends π
where are youuuu π€

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Why is making friends in your 40βs so hard?! Iβm 45, SAHM and have 3 kids with a big age gap. Looking for a texting bestie that actually responds. Letβs chat, send each other memes and support each other. Donβt care where you live! Honesty, non-judgmental and a sense of humor is a must. Letβs talk
about our kids but also ourselves and anything else because letβs be real, itβs all about the kids π€£ I love plants, reading, true crime and crafting. Throw some iced coffee in there and my new bestie and Iβm a happy girl!
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My husband is in the army, heβs separating due to his injuries. Heβs currently in a holding unit but will be coming home soon in a few weeks. I just got this message from him and I am not really sure how to respond to it or how to feel about it. What do you think π€
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βSo I go to the track almost everyday to run and this girl also goes and we basically been like running together everyday like nothing crazy just side by side and talking but she wants my insta , I donβt think sheβs weird or anything I wanted to ask u first if I could.β
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Anyone else have a blue collar husband and tends to be solo parenting, on survival mode while they work long hours ? It gets lonely here and could use some relatable connections! π«Άπ»
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I am getting myself confused regarding the 30 hour for 9 months old
Will like if someone can help confirm if Iβm right
My daughter was born 22 of Feb, sheβll be 9 months in November, the term after Nov is January, I resume work in January officially as well, but I will be taking annual leave into February
Can I get the funding from Jan?

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Anyone else find motherhood extremely tough? I love my baby. I feel like everyone says how much they love it but dont talk about all the challenges and times of loneliness that come with it.
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