Anyone using a dummy for their newborn?
Heard it could lead to nipple confusion and may be hard for them to come off? So not entirely sure if I should introduce one.
My baby sometimes stays on my boob even after they’re done eating or if they’re stimulated, they want the boob to calm down or as a way to help sleep so was thinking a dummy might be better?
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I introduced one at about 4 weeks once breastfeeding was well established, I got the Phillips avent soothie

I introduced a dummy from early and it didn’t affect breastfeeding for us.. pumping milk for a bottle did! She realised the bottle was much easier and didn’t want the boob anymore 😢

I gave her the dummy at 2 months old

Nipple confusion isn’t really so much of an issue but interfering with the natural latching process can affect milk supply if a dummy is being used to replace cluster feeding x
I’m just now one week postpartum my daughter’s dad who wanted a baby really desperately ghosted me in the Pregnacy had excuses every time for why he wouldn’t show up he’s been in and out didn’t buy nothing for the baby I had contact with him asked he wanted to know anything after she was born. Wanted to know who she resembled her entire name about the birth certificate said he wanted to meet his daughter asked if the Drs asked where the dad was at delivery then he disappeared again won’t respond it breaks my heart we dated he used to be completely different then now he’s gone again I feel I won’t be happy again I won’t find a good guy one day and just be happy can some moms tell me ur story dose gets better did you ever move on from ur child’s father get married or was happy?

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6 week old fusses the whole night, literally.
Feed her, have to hold her upright for 20-30mins and then put her down 20-30mins later she is fussing and needs settling. She gets put down, but its 20-30mins later shes unsettled again. She has white noise etc, even sleeping next to me doesnt help as she just fusses there.
This is repeated quite literally the WHOLE night. Please give me some advice as im going on no sleep every single night and feel like im on a downward spiral mentally.
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We generally start bedtime around the same time in the evenings but throughout the day he naps at different times, and I feed him as and when he shows signs of hunger.
The only reason I’m questioning this is because I get asked questions like ‘when did he last feed?’ But I don’t keep track of the exact time I just know roughly how long ago it was.
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