Am I overreacting?
A few weeks ago I opened my boyfriends instagram (on his extra phone) and immediately saw a bunch of naked women & thirst/porn accounts. Quickly realized this account wasn’t his personal account and appeared to have no association to him at all. Hard to say if the account was ever a legit account or just a spam account used for lustful purposes. I know his extra phone used to be someone else’s phone so the small part of me that wants to give him the benefit of the doubt is like well what if it was already on the phone when he got it & just never deleted it as his real account is on his primary phone. Buuut the other part of me is like even if that’s the case why keep the account on his extra phone?
Naturally when I found it I was a bit pissed off but I never said anything. Tonight however we were already on the topic of the apps he has on his extra phone so I asked him about the IG account on there. Immediate silence. Never responded even after a couple attempts of “why the crickets?” “no response?” After that I just stopped pressing it and have lowkey been giving the silent treatment.
Sure I don’t like that he’s potentially following a ton (500+) thirst accounts, but now I’m more so just pissed tf off that he’s choosing to ignore me about the whole thing rather than just come clean about it.
Do I ask him about it again or just leave it? Am I overreacting??
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🤔..I think you should bring it back up..no lie. It an OVER..it can be looked 👀 at from one perspective as “argumentative or maybe even childish” but,f*** that. You need to know what’s up,like frfr… that is a lot and a guilty dog 🐕 barks.. and his silence 🤐 spoke volume. My 💭 s
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Nah facts, unless I’m just wayyy left field, ik good and well if it truly was nothing he would’ve said that buuuut the silence was the equivalent to a dog with his tail tucked knowing he just got caught up
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