Maybe I’m old, but does anyone recall the stickers that are put on the outside of a child’s bedroom window to inform fire/police where a child’s bedroom is located in case of emergency? They are called tot finder stickers. Do any of you guys have those? Something different? My husband wants to get one for our baby, and my anxiety wants one as well… BUTTTT my anxiety is also telling me that sticker tells all the psychopaths/pedophiles what room my child is in (even though it’s the second floor).
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I’m not sure about something like this specifically but my best suggestion is to pop by your local fire department and ask what current recommendations are. City events at this time of year may also be a good place to chat with local responders as they usually have a booth set up.

I agree with Jas. But I also know that they have veered away from this for the exact reason that you have stated. They also suggest you don’t put cartoon curtains up, or anything that would identify where your child is sleeping. Unfortunately that’s where the world is. And it’s awful. To ease your anxiety’s for both you and your husband, I would go and ask what they suggest is the safest way!!

I do understand the idea behind the stickers BUT first responders will automatically check every room of the house anyway so you know the house will be fully searched and everyone will be recovered. As you said, all i can think of is the fact you are just advertising exactly which room a child is in and that doesn’t sound safe to me! x
How many words does your 18mo have? We've got about 6/7 and have been told by nursery and the health visitor thats the lower end/slightly behind. She understands very well, but rarely uses the words she knows and was a late babbler.
Just wondering if anyone else had been through the same with any advice to help her speech?
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My baby is on cow and gate and has been for the last 2 weeks. I introduced breast alongside but she is refusing to latch because of the confusion and is getting frustrated when I’m trying to feed. However I’ve now stopped (for my mental state) she’s now showing signs of being very uncomfortable and straining and isn’t pooing until over 48 hours. We have been to the doctors and they have said because she is showing signs of uncomfortableness and straining to switch formulas. However they said not to use cow and gate comfort as it sits in the stomach longer.
Does anyone have any recommendations for formula that will help her bowels?

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i’ve woken up this morning to my milk coming in. my bra was soaking and my breasts are so sore. i’ve got the momcozy pump but i don’t know how to pump. none of my family have pumped before so have no one to ask for advice. what settings should i be using please? i’m pumping and formula feeding as i struggled to breast feed.
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Hii
My son is 2023 feb born
He is going to the preschool since 2 years never had a problem
Since two weeks they were told he is been physically one day
And later they told me today he is again being physical i then asked what exactly is happening then the member of staff told me he wants kids to play with him so he is pushing them to play
Then i came home and spoke with the manager and she said the same
Is this behaviour normal are need attention
He plays with the kids in the community but never seen him pushing
He is very good in communication,
Expressing himself and understanding
What should i do to avoid this ?
He never does anything as such in front of us
How to we know??
Please moms need u help
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Hey ladies!
I am a woman on the edge. My baby has not had a single poo in the last 3 days that hasn’t escaped out of her nappy somehow. We’re using pampers which are supposed to be poonami proof! Is my baby just an aggressive pooper?!
Thoughts, prayers and advice needed please ❤️

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Looking for some advice, my nearly 5 week old baby will suck on a dummy for around 1-2 mins then spits it out and start fussing again that he wants it, sometimes he will even wake up from a nap for it. This will continue until he falls into a deep sleep and eventually when the dummy falls out he won’t wake back up . He will also settle without a dummy so does he maybe just not want it or are the dummies too big for his mouth I’m not sure 😩 we have tried the mam newborn orthodontic ones and the tommee tippee 0-2 month (the teat on these are a lot bigger). He is also formula fed, has anyone else been through this if so all advice welcome 🙏🏻

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