Thoughts

Bought my man a toy so he can deal with his shit when Im not interested for whatever reason. Best investment of my life. And porn is fine. Men have high af sex drives and mine very much varies up and down. Id rather he whack it out upstairs to a bit of porn than want to find it in a warm body.

I find it to be disrespectful

I feel like if they have needs, & I’m not in the mood go for it. “Yank it out instead of stepping out” but also agree it messes with a person psychologically.. just depends on perspective

I just found out on Sunday mine has been watching porn for a long time… I wish he told me, then I would’ve been ok with it as we watched it together before. Now just 3 weeks after having a baby I’m in pieces and I find it awfully disrespectful…
I don’t feel like I’m ever going to be good enough for him, if he needs to do that especially that he mentioned that he’s “unsatisfied”. But I guess it’s whatever works for your relationship..

Doesnt bother me. we watch it together or separate.
Some do have good ideas to spice things up.
I rather him watch a video, than being with another body

I found it disrespectful he can watch but I don’t have to know about it. Tbh I watch porn as well but without him knowing about it

We don’t, we can make videos together to rewatch. Luckily his drive isn’t through the roof, mine is. He knows I prefer he didn’t, and so he doesn’t.

If his drive was higher than mine, I’d probably change my mind but we direct our energy and attention to each other in the fleeting moments that we do have together in our crazy lives now.

Totally against it and I feel like porn is a terrible thing.

I’m against my man watching porn. He knows how I feel about it