Being cheated on for like the 8 million time
Why is it so easy for him to cheat? Why does he do it? What do I do that is so difficult for him to love me and our almost 3 month old daughter? All I know is I need to break the cycle I’m done! I rather be a single mom and struggle than deal with this all over! My self esteem is gone! Self respect in myself gone I continues forgive and forgive and forgive just to be cheated on again I just want a good man that is loyal 🙄😟😞done
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It's easy for him to cheat because he knows you're going to forgive him/take him back.
Prove him wrong and walk away. Put yourself first. Learn to love and respect yourself and put that before needing a partner.
It’s easy for him because you won’t leave
I’m so sorry you’re going through this it’s always better to let go it’s not worth your sanity and peace. You got this and you’re everything a good man would want🩷
I’ve studied a bit about men’s psychology and unfortunately if a woman is to make them feel really comfortable in the relationship starting with small things and allowing them to disrespect you about the small things it shows them where you stand and they become willing to continue pushing boundaries they eventually think you won’t ever leave them
De-centre men. You don’t need another man, you need to focus on your child and bettering yourself. Get some therapy to sort out your self-esteem and uncover why you are so accepting of shit from men. Get your money up, get your education up, sort your health out, learn new skills, travel! There are a million and one things to do than put all your energy into another man 🤦🏽♀️
As for him and cheating, he does it because he knows you accept it. Stop accepting it and dump him and then move on with your life.
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