Am I in the wrong
Me my partner and 2 kids (aged 1 and 4) have gone out for the day, the kids were getting grumpy as there hungry. I said we need to get food and he was just walking around in circles not getting food. So we get to a Tesco and I said I’m grabbing the kids a meal deal each and again he’s just walking around Tesco not a care in the world so he said he wanted cereal bars we find them I said what ones and he had a go at me and storms out the shop and then we get into the car and he starts shouting at me saying I’m the reason he’s not home much.
But all I’ve been saying is the kids need to eat as there hungry.
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He’s obviously in a mood with you over something else but to take it out on you because the kids are hungry? Very strange, he should talk to you when the kids are asleep. He shouldn’t be shouting at you either!
You’re not in the wrong. Clearly he’s grumpy about something else.
He’s clearly mad about something else and he’s being a child about it instead of communicating what he’s feeling. Realistically there isn’t much you yourself can do about it.
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Am I in the wrong
Me my partner and 2 kids (aged 1 and 4) have gone out for the day, the kids were getting grumpy as there hungry. I said we need to get food and he was just walking around in circles not getting food. So we get to a Tesco and I said I’m grabbing the kids a meal deal each and again he’s just walking around Tesco not a care in the world so he said he wanted cereal bars we find them I said what ones and he had a go at me and storms out the shop and then we get into the car and he starts shouting at me saying I’m the reason he’s not home much.
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