Is it just me or does midwives seem rude? My last 2 kids i had normal doctors that I got to knowing 1 on 1 and were nice this baby I have a bunch of different midwives I have to meet and they seem kinda rude.
They are very against alot of things and seem judgemental kinda and not very talkative nor do they smile much. I feel embarrassed even asking questions. I didnt have a choice of hospital wise and of course my hospital is also 1hr away.
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I wouldn’t say mine was rude but she was so unaware. I tried understanding that people make mistakes but the mistakes she made could’ve cause lots of harm. After the first visit with her I asked to book with someone else and ended up seeing mostly doctors since. I do love my most recent midwife though! She’s amazing
Yes 100% they are rude, moody and don't give a crap about you or your own body in the slightest 😤
Yes, horrifically rude from experience and provide misinformation.
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