Am I the only one...

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I meeeeeaaann…. I don’t want to jump to any conclusions but I would be very sus about that behavior. Especially getting defensive about “him doing something” I would keep an eye on the rest of his behavior.
I’m a little confused about the middle part you said he goes to bed and DOES touch on you? So is he trying to get intimate at bedtime?
I could only imagine feeling rejected like that from your partner. I’m very sorry. I hope things change for the better for you. I k own take t my husband sometime because I am tired and hate my post baby body but he ALWAYS wants it and he in his 30’s and I’m 40… hope your husband opens his eyes. Try communicating that you need it and how you feel rejected, him getting upset that your communicating your feelings isn’t ok

Hmm honestly I am lost, have no idea at all. I know my husband and me went through phases where sexual desire was one sided, sometimes from him and sometimes from me but when it was like that the person who didn't want it was not touchy at all almost. I hope you figure it out xx concerning the sparks going away, I disagree. The only sparks that go away are the ones from the uncertainty and the little flirt games before you actually settle. But once you commit to each other and are secure there is still plenty of sparks coming your way as a couple if you continue showing up for each other in the ways you did when you tried winning each other over.

Okay without knowing his reasons its hard to say . Like right now I’m preg . And me and mine haven’t been either in a bit . And he as well have his reason. Which if I’m honest are valid . Like him being to exhausted or stressed he usually not into doing things . So you have to know the difference. Is his excuses valid or is he b.s you . Every relationship is different. Sometimes it not a matter if he doesn’t want to . Is okay I desire to but 1,2,3 whatever that reason is . I get mad when I don’t get my way as well despite the reason . But you do have to consider the person and what they may have going on . Because I’ll want that from my husband if I’m going through a not in the mood because x,y,z