Birth control

Hey y'all, my marriage is going through some issues. And while I love my husband, we have been trying for our second baby, so far it hasn't been successful. I've been having a lot of doubts about having a second baby while my first one is not even a year. I don't exactly feel ready. And I don't feel like my husband will help me out as much. So thinking on going on birth control. I just don't want my husband to find out. I know it is a horrible thing of me to do. But I already feel like a single mom and I can't wrap my head around what to babies would feel like if I'm doing this basically alone

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Have you tried to talk to him about how you're feeling? It's also not my business so you obviously don't have to answer but why don't you want him to find out or know if you go on birth control hun?

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Our religion doesn't allow plus I don't agree with birth control either but I'm so exhausted of doing it all on my own that I just can't do it. And he will not take it well if I said I want to wait

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Birth control

Hey y'all, my marriage is going through some issues. And while I love my husband, we have been trying for our second baby, so far it hasn't been successful. I've been having a lot of doubts about having a second baby while my first one is not even a year. I don't exactly feel ready. And I don't feel like my husband will help me out as much. So thinking on going on birth control. I just don't want my husband to find out. I know it is a horrible thing of me to do. But I already feel like a single mom and I can't wrap my head around what to babies would feel like if I'm doing this basically alone

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