I hope this comes across in the best way possible but looking for some advise. I am a ftm to a 12 day old.
She exceeded her birth weight at 9 days old and our midwife said to not stress too much in the night as she will wake to feed before 4 hours. We questioned if she didn’t and she said she will so don’t stress - anyway last night she went nearly 4.5 hours and then I woke her up? I am kind of confused as to what the rules are on this so many places say different things!!!
Very grateful for a good sleeper and conscious it could change in a day or two but want to make sure she’s getting enough!
Thanks
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I think there are no rules for this, so it’s completely up to you, and what feels right for you and your baby. I would always trust your instincts, mummy usually knows best. Ive got three and I’ve never had a baby who hasn’t woken for a feed tbh, but if I did then I probably wouldn’t wake them as long as I felt they were getting enough in the day/evening.

Kinda in the same boat with my 15 day old, she tends to wake up in the night every 2 hours if she's been sleeping lots during the day but sometimes 5 hours in the night if she's been clustering in the day. My midwife told me because she's really exceeded her birth weight she's fine, but AI says not to let it go beyond 5-6 hours

My nearly 2 week old does long stints at night, one night was 8 hours which i tried waking for a feed after 4 hours and he just wasn’t interested! At an appointment I asked what to do, they said because he’s over his birth weight, feeds well and has lots of wet and soiled nappies during the day, they said there’s no need to wake him to feed him - he’ll wake if he’s hungry and to embrace the sleep.
I’m totally enjoying all the sleep I can get as my first woke so regularly for feeds and only just started sleeping through at 2 years old!!

The general consensus is once they're passed their birth weight and as long as there's no other medical/feeding issues then you can leave them to sleep

I wouldn’t worry, just keep track of their birth weight and in the immediate term just check they’ve got wet nappies and aren’t dehydrated or overdressed etc
My little girl is 2 months tomo and I currently have to rock pat and shush her to sleep. If I dont put her to sleep she will stay up and be extremely overtired. I cant even sit and rock she will fuss and cry until I stand up. I see others put their baby in the crib and they fall asleep themselves and mine is not capable of doing that. Its so exhausting and even if shes too young now I would love some advice on other peoples experience on how they moved away from rocking their baby and started encouraging them to fall asleep on their own/using other cues to help them fall asleep. She doesn’t like being swaddled and refuses the dummy she will make faces and gag so they dont help.

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Does anyone have any car seat recommendations or something else I could be doing to make her more comfortable?
Thank you 💕

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Has anyone’s baby gone about 5–6 hours without breastfeeding? My baby doesn’t take a bottle or formula, so I’m wondering what happens if I have to leave her with someone for a few hours without me there to breastfeed.
She’s around the weaning stage now, so do you think she would eat some food if I’m not around, or would she maybe accept formula if I’m not there? She absolutely refuses the bottle at the moment.
I’m just wondering how other mums have handled this because I’m a bit worried about leaving her without milk ❤️
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Hi everyone! ❤️
I have inverted nipples, and unfortunately, I wasn’t able to breastfeed my first son for very long due to health issues and difficulties with latching.
I know there are pumps and other options available, but I’d love to get some support and advice before my second baby arrives.
Does anyone know of any local breastfeeding support groups or services? I’d also love to hear from anyone who has experience breastfeeding with inverted nipples. Any advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated! 🫶

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Please tell me someone has a magic trick to help!
I believe we are hitting the 3/4 month regression and I’ve read everywhere that the key is to self sooth. Anyone got any tips or tricks for how to get this successfully nailed?
Picture for advice tax. 😊

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