Mommy’s Helper

Typically, how much does your mommy’s helper charge you? Is it hourly? A flat rate no matter the hours?

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Nursery, how would you feel

My baby’s been in nursery for the last 5 months and after a long process of settling he seems happy. However, I’ve had a number of issues over this time I’ve not felt overly happy about. Now I’m at a point of considering re visiting other nurseries which feels huge knowing my sons established himself somewhere. Something that was really important to my husband and I was that the childcare setting took the babies out every so often. My son has not been out once since he started so spends 8hrs in one room. He really struggles to sleep whilst there and being in the same room for that many hours probably doesn’t help. I never get any updates in the week, never see any photos of him and on the blog posts he never appears in any photos. He has a key worker (newly assigned) but I’m not sure on the purpose of her as she’s hardly in and has never spoken to me. Then yesterday I collected him and he stunk of 💩. Got home and realised his nappy was dirty and clearly hadn’t been changed for a while. I keep telling myself as he’s happy and we’ve established our routine we are better off keeping going as changing setting is a huge decision make but I don’t know if it is worth checking a few other places out as this current one is the only one we visited originally

Outdoors

Does anybody else go for walks everyday with their baby? I sometimes I find it hard getting out when the weather cold..

Am I in the wrong?

My husband’s car broke down yesterday, so it’s currently in the shop getting fixed. This morning, I drove him to work. He normally starts at 7 a.m., but because I also have to take our son to school, I asked him if he could start a little later. He had no issue with that at the time.

Now tonight, his boss, who lives near us, offered to give him a ride to work, and his dad also offered because they’re heading in the same direction. Despite having those options, he’s insisting that I take him and that he needs to be at work for 7 a.m.

I asked him why, because that would mean I’d have to wake up around 5 a.m. and wake up both kids, including a baby and a toddler, just to drive him to work before taking our son to school. When I tried to explain why that would be difficult for me, he started going off on me, saying I make his life difficult.

I eventually got fed up and cussed him out too, because I was tired of being spoken to like that when I was simply trying to explain my situation. Now he’s stomping around, huffing and puffing, throwing a fit, and I’ve just walked away because I don’t want to keep arguing.

What frustrates me the most is that I’m already trying to help him out while his car is being repaired. He has two other people offering him rides, but somehow I’m the one making his life difficult because I can’t accommodate the exact time he wants. I have two young children to take care of, and my time and sleep matter too. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect him to consider that instead of making me feel guilty for not doing everything his way.

Stimulating indoor activities

Today the weather is crappy, we are looking for stimulating indoor activities for a 2 year old.

Please give me your best games etc to do today

Venting

Hey mommas!
I really need advice.. I have been with my spouse/father of my kids for almost 8 years. I don’t know if I’m crazy but I came to realize I’m not inlove with him anymore.. he has recently been drinking a lot, he’s an alcoholic and he knows he needs help but doesn’t want to go to therapy nor go to a meeting at he doesn’t want to do it for his own kids not for himself. I’m so tired of matching sure my kids are happy and keeping the house clean. I basically deal with our kids more than he does, it so rare when he changes one of our youngest diapers. He says that he’s never done anything wrong. And mommas let me tell you I’m currently unemployed and he’s the one working but somehow still complaining about everything! “ oh I hate my life, I stress out to much oh this and that “ but I’ve noticed that when I have a job he doesn’t tell me “ do you got money for this or is this coming out of you pocket “ and yet when I’m unemployed he starts to say it. It’s hard to even get a job now that we found out our 2 year old is autistic and needs his therapies.. I’m the one making sure that keeps happening for him.. I’m just so alone and I want to go back to CA ..

What can my 4 month old baby sit in?

He wants to sit up more but not sure if he is too young for the mamas and papas chair with tray?