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Does anybody else go for walks everyday with their baby? I sometimes I find it hard getting out when the weather cold..
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I use my baby carrier and a carrier cover over the top. Thin layers on baby, as you act like a layer especially when you're walking. Then the cover is also a layer. My little girl is lovely and warm. She loves being in her carrier 😄
Every day unless there’s pounding rain. Can make it a walking nap.
We try to, it’s tough when it’s raining though. My boy isn’t a fan on the rain cover, plus it’s so miserable being out and getting soaked, especially when we’re both exhausted
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Does anybody else go for walks everyday with their baby? I sometimes I find it hard getting out when the weather cold..
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My husband’s car broke down yesterday, so it’s currently in the shop getting fixed. This morning, I drove him to work. He normally starts at 7 a.m., but because I also have to take our son to school, I asked him if he could start a little later. He had no issue with that at the time.
Now tonight, his boss, who lives near us, offered to give him a ride to work, and his dad also offered because they’re heading in the same direction. Despite having those options, he’s insisting that I take him and that he needs to be at work for 7 a.m.
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I eventually got fed up and cussed him out too, because I was tired of being spoken to like that when I was simply trying to explain my situation. Now he’s stomping around, huffing and puffing, throwing a fit, and I’ve just walked away because I don’t want to keep arguing.
What frustrates me the most is that I’m already trying to help him out while his car is being repaired. He has two other people offering him rides, but somehow I’m the one making his life difficult because I can’t accommodate the exact time he wants. I have two young children to take care of, and my time and sleep matter too. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect him to consider that instead of making me feel guilty for not doing everything his way.
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