This is a UK poll whereby the father’s details are listed first. Where no father is named, those boxes remain empty. Where both parents named identify as female, the non-birthing parent goes first and the birthing parent second. This is according to The Births and Deaths Registration Act 1953.
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The person who birthed the baby should be listed first.

put me in a room with the person who decided the person who birthed the baby goes second on the birth certificate because what?????

So 2 mums here 👋🏼 just checked ours out of interest and my wife's name is first!! She's listed as "other parent" and then I'm listed as "mother."
So I guess it's the non birthing parent first so would be father and then mother for man and woman. I must have been too sleep deprived to notice 😆

They should definitely be able to choose! I wonder if it’s because most times unmarried parents give the baby dad’s last name. Ours are mother then father which makes most sense considering the kids came out of me lol

Does it really matter?!
Had a really weird experience this morning! Had sex and about an hour later went for a wee- had gone for a wee before sex too but then 5 mins later a gush of clear water liquid came out of me down my legs, over my hands. Not a trickle but not a puddle. Anyone else had this?
We went to MAU and cervix is closed and it wasn’t discharge so we’ve been sent home and told to monitor and monitor symptoms. Baby’s not engaged and moving lots.
Just feel like we need more answers than that?
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Is anyone else feeling sick again more?

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Hi, it's just been confirmed that I have placenta praevia (the placenta is covering the opening of the cervix) which, if it doesn't resolve on its own, means an elective c-section. Does anyone know how early they might perform a c-section for this? Trying to plan my mat leave!

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I am 15 weeks now, and I have only met my midwife once for the intake appointment. She was lovely, but I haven’t been able to get in touch with her and my 12 week and 20 week scan have been scheduled in another hospital.
Wondering if this is normal and how others have gone about getting information/advice from their midwives between appointments.
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This is a UK poll whereby the father’s details are listed first. Where no father is named, those boxes remain empty. Where both parents named identify as female, the non-birthing parent goes first and the birthing parent second. This is according to The Births and Deaths Registration Act 1953.
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