I need help asap šš
My husband usually sleeps downstairs on the couch as he prefers the tv on when he sleeps, he also says I snore a lot.. Recently I think itās affecting our relationship so he comes up stairs sometimes and sleeps in bed. My 7 month old sleeps the next to me cot or we co sleep if sheās fussy ( which is often)
When my husband sleeps in bed he snores sooooooooo much and so loud I canāt sleep and my baby also finds it hard to go back to sleep when she wakes for a feed.
I donāt know what to do to keep my relationship good ( just isnāt about intamancy just being able to lay net to each other)
I might cry literally heās snoring now and I canāt sleep thankfully my baby is as Iāve got her next to me.
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Get your husband to do a sleep study. They make recommend a CPAP machine for him. Better for everyone to have his sleep looked at.
My parents have slept in separate rooms for years. My moms is decorated in butterflies. Literally because my dad snores like a freight train.
Have you tried using sleep sounds to drown it out?
Really get checked out why he snores so much in the first place
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Iāve asked him for help endlessly and explained that Iām barely sleeping & he always says āyeah thatās the way it should be because youāre off work & im notā.
If I had a straight forward baby that I could breastfeed for 20-30 mins then go straight back to sleep then I wouldnāt mind.
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I need help asap šš
My husband usually sleeps downstairs on the couch as he prefers the tv on when he sleeps, he also says I snore a lot.. Recently I think itās affecting our relationship so he comes up stairs sometimes and sleeps in bed. My 7 month old sleeps the next to me cot or we co sleep if sheās fussy ( which is often)
When my husband sleeps in bed he snores sooooooooo much and so loud I canāt sleep and my baby also finds it hard to go back to sleep when she wakes for a feed.
I donāt know what to do to keep my relationship good ( just isnāt about intamancy just being able to lay net to each other)
I might cry literally heās snoring now and I canāt sleep thankfully my baby is as Iāve got her next to me.
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