Vaginal swelling

25 weeks and today I had a weird feeling vaginally like not quite pressure but like something was in my vagina lol and was like what the hell. A apart of me was a little worried because I have cerclage. So I decided to feel down there and holy crap my vagina is swollen lol labia and all.
Anyone else have ?

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First birthday

I posted about this earlier, but now I have another thought. If I were to do my babies first birthday party, it’s gonna be in December and it is cold and could snow, we have already gotten permission to do it at our church so there wasn’t be any activities for the other people kids. As a parent are we worried about that or no? We have an extremely small budget to use for decor and food, what did yall do for food?

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Is this normal

Ive been alone for 5 days taking care of our 4 month old and im starting to get terrified that i might accidentally hurt her im so tired and frustrated sometimes id never hurt her on purpose im so scared tbat i might do it on accident

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Boy name

Which name do you think is better? First and middle. If youve got any other ideas feel free to drop em!

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pain

I had my baby naturally on the 14th October and still have a pain down there? best way I can describe it is like when your tampon is full and you can feel it starting to slip out. It’s more a discomfort than pain. I also had a 2nd degree tear. not sure if related. my whole vagina also feels bruised?

anyone else or????

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partners staying in hospital?

are partners aloud to stay over night with you at the royal infirmary when you give birth?

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