Toddler waking in the night since his brother was born??
My toddler was previously sleeping through and had been for about 5 months before we had our second baby. He’s maybe waken in the a handful of times during these 5 months.
He’s all of a sudden started waking up in the night (for the past week), crying for me and wanting to be BF. I usually only bf him before bed at night. He will only settle for me. This combined with breastfeeding is taking a toll due to the lack of sleep.
Is this normal? Is this due to the change? He’s eating and drinking well before bed and I doubt it’s due to hunger or thirst.
Has anyone had experience of this? How long did it last?
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Hi, I had to double check if I put on a post for this, as it sounds just like me right now 🤣 My son is 4 weeks old and my other son is 2.5 years old and has been doing the exact same thing with the wake ups! Its multiple times at night at least 3 times but when either me or my husband go n into his room we just ask him to lay back down and sleep. Its so tricky to manage. However this is a normal stage of a toddler adapting, especially when they know the new born is sleeping in your room and they are not. Good luck
If the dad js available, u can let him sleep with your oldest in a separate room for sometime. That s what i did with my then 11 months old when i had her brother
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