Father in law won’t make our wedding

I know it’s not baby related but

Due to ill health and a prognosis of three months to live my father in law won’t make it to our wedding next September which is ripping my fiancés heart out, we can’t move the wedding forward as cost wise we just can’t afford it, I was thinking maybe a small mini wedding/ceremony at the care home he is residing in for his last few months, just so he can be somewhat part of it?
Has anyone done anything like this and how did it go?

Thankyou🤍🤍

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Toddler sucking thumb

Pleaseeee be honest because I’ve heard so many contradictions, does sucking thumb mess up toddlers teeth in future? If yes, how do I stop him doing it!?

Feeling deflated

For context I am a fully qualified early years teacher and I am more than competent in teaching and looking after my daughter.
We recently got a confirmation that our daughter can start nursery in 2028. (She will be 2) however I’ve realised I’m not comfortable with this (history of working in nursery’s and knowing what happens behind the scenes) and also I can simply do it all myself and I am happy to.
My husband tells me that he wants her to start nursery then and not stay home and let me care for her because she needs to go to nursery. I don’t understand why he would rather send her to be cared for by random people when I’m a stay at home mum and qualified to do it myself.
I also don’t really see how he gets much of a say in it (outside of just a general opinion) as it doesn’t affect him at all whether she is home with me or at nursery as I’ll be doing it all anyway? And he will be saving money if she doesn’t go…

Parents who have not sent their child to nursery can you comment experiences.

How would you handle this?

Hi mums. I would really appreciate some advice. Sometimes i think i tolerate too much and i would like to find out how other mums would handle this situation. To cut a long story short, my husband works for his friend. Eversince he started working for his friend we have had many disagreements. I support my husband and i want the best for him. He does alot for this job and gets paid a minimum wage. There are other friends in the work place which resulted in my husband coming home late most days as they would spend time together after work or entertaining clients.This friend also opened another business so my husband assists him there at times. This job requires my husband to go on unpaid work trips. I’ve fought with him before mentioning that these work trips are not worth it as he doesn’t get paid for them and we need the finance desperately.What he gets out of it is free flights, accommodation and food.Now these work trips are requiring him to go overseas. I am a stay at home mum that runs her business from home. I contribute in the home where i can. I have 3 children and no help. I attend to everything in the home. My husband is mostly at work or spending time with his friends. I’ve stopped complaining as i’ve tried to rather support him thinking that the financial situation would change but it hasn’t and gone worse. My quality of life has dropped and in return my husband has received the latest phone, a car and expensive clothes from his friend. I feel like my husband is perishing from working for his friend but my kids and i not. I might sound selfish in this post but i am up for hearing how i should handle this. He has recently told me that his friend wants him to go with clients over seas and it’s made me feel sick as it comes with no pay. Are husbands with children out there taking free work trips? Is this a thing? Please note that i am left at home with no help and 3 children and not in a very good financial situation. I’ve never complained but it isn’t easy. I just feel like it isn’t worth it. I’ve begged him to look for a better job where the salary is worth it but he seems comfortable working for his friend.It’s affecting my mental health and i just don’t understand how my husband is going on unpaid work trips??

Feeling pretty down tonight

I am 36 and about to have my 3rd baby. The father and I didn't work out. I'm feeling pretty down about that tonight & idk how to lift myself up from it. I am almost 40 and have never had anyone actually choose me and love me and at this point I dont think I will ever feel that. Each of my kids have different fathers, the first isnt involved at all, the second is sporadically involved, and the third hasn't been there for me throughout this entire pregnancy. He's been around sure, but its only for the baby. He never actually chose to care about me. I'm just tired. Tired of always being dismissed or walked away from. Tired of having to spend this life fighting and surviving. Tired of not having anyone to turn to for support. I have no friends and hardly any family. I just feel so alone. & idk who is going to want me after having three children with three different fathers, plus having a newborn at 36 years old. . I just want it to end already.

Lunch ideas for 7m nearly 8m when out

Health visitor has recommended for me to start giving my baby lunch. 5/7 days of the week we are usually out when I’ll be giving her lunch. Has anyone got any ideas on what to feed my baby when out?
So far I’ve seen pinwheels, yogurt and fruit ect.

Primary School

My daughter turned 2 this month and will stay with her childminder until she is 4. When should i start looking into primary schools/applying for her place? Tia