Im going to go ahead and ask it....

It has definitely been tough at times, our little boy just turned one month old today. Exclusively breastfeeding but wanting to offer breastmilk in a bottle soon so husband can help at times. Absolutely no routine 😂 No shifts, I do nights on my own as it's just easier. Husband is working (self employed) and has been away on work trips already. Sleep varies, sometimes he wakes up after 1.5 hours, sometimes we get 4 hour stretches. Generally around 6 hours of sleep but varies from 5 to 7 hours. Feel very overwhelmed at times but generally just so happy to be our little boy's mum 🥰

It’s a lot honestly but when I look at my baby girl I feel it’s all worth it ❤️❤️

Parenting with partner (we have a nearly 5 year old and 8 week old)
Formula
Not really got a routine
We did shift sleeping until 7 weeks
Im on mat leave, partner works home 3 days and office 2 days
Last couple weeks tough for fussiness and not settling. Generally of a night shes up every 3-4 hours for a feed but had a couple of unexpected longer stints!
Id say around 4-5 hours sleep for me.
I have been referred to the perinatal mental health team for concerns and anxiety relating to my own health. Otherwise, I am feeling generally a lot better at 8 weeks than previously. I have good and bad days. I'm not getting out with baby at all really but we have just moved house. Ive booked a baby massage class and hope to get out with her more when there is less rain.

Just realised you said FTM after writing all of that. But I honestly am learning it all again after 5 years! X