Bedtime help

My LO is 11 weeks old and she is so hard to get to sleep at night time. We don’t follow a set routine and follow her cues. She will contact nap throughout the day but naps are pretty inconsistent and if I try to transfer her she will wake up and cry straight away.

At night time she is so tired and fighting sleep so hard, we will give her a bottle or boob and she will be fast asleep but the second we put her in the cot she is wide awake and crying hysterically, but she will fall back asleep on me or her dad. Once she has been asleep on one of us for an hour to 2 hours we can then put her in her cot and she will sleep thought the night.

Any advice to get her sleep in her cot with out 1/2 contact sleep on a night time?

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Also having similar issues here so keen to hear any tips on this

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I use an app to help understand my baby’s sleeping patterns for every month cause it changes. It doesn’t stay the same. We used Huckleberry app to get through our nights. You can also ask advice on the app.

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💯 Huckleberry - I used it with my first to track naps and sweet spot for when to go down. Loved it - will be using for my second

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Bedtime help

My LO is 11 weeks old and she is so hard to get to sleep at night time. We don’t follow a set routine and follow her cues. She will contact nap throughout the day but naps are pretty inconsistent and if I try to transfer her she will wake up and cry straight away.

At night time she is so tired and fighting sleep so hard, we will give her a bottle or boob and she will be fast asleep but the second we put her in the cot she is wide awake and crying hysterically, but she will fall back asleep on me or her dad. Once she has been asleep on one of us for an hour to 2 hours we can then put her in her cot and she will sleep thought the night.

Any advice to get her sleep in her cot with out 1/2 contact sleep on a night time?

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