Pregnant with baby number 3. Other two are 5&7 (will be 6&8 by the time baby is born).
We have a two bed house and moving is not an option. Last baby not planned but not unwanted either!
Plan to have baby in our room for the first couple of years then turn our room (the bigger one) into two small rooms for the older boys and put baby in the second (technically third room) smaller room. We will then get a decent sofa bed and sleep in the living room. Is anyone else in a similar situation and got any advice? This way all the children have their own space, and the living room can be turned into our bedroom after they go to bed. I think it’s fine but have had some negative comments
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I'm considering this as an option too, I live in a 2 bed and expecting surprise baby number 2. I'm thinking of either splitting my room and giving baby and my son that or letting them share the bigger room then having my son's current room as mine but it's very small not sure would fit a double bed...or same as you getting a sofa bed for downstairs and letting both kids have a room each.
Have you thought about storage etc, where you'll store your clothes and bedding and everything if you have downstairs room, I'm thinking will still have to have wardrobes in the kids rooms for my things as won't want and don't have space for that stuff downstairs.
I'm definitely with you though on needs must and putting the kids first to make sure they have their rooms is way more important to me than me having a room xx
hi 🤍 ftm to my almost 2 month old. i choose to breastfeed and bottle feed but i don’t have a consistent schedule. i’ve been doing either or, based upon the time
of day, how much milk i have stored, or how fussy my baby is. i also co-sleep at times but other times he will sleep in his bassinet. but now im realizing the only way he is soothed is by being on my chest or immediately getting breastfed or by the bottle (eating.) i cant really sit him down anywhere anymore for more than 5-10 minutes before he starts crying again. he also doesn’t really rely on pacifiers or like being in his swing that long anymore (he used to love it without crying). i love that he’s attached to me, but i also want to know how to have him be soothed in other ways for when i choose to stop breastfeeding, put him in his crib in his room, travel and need family to watch him, need to run an errand, do anything around the house, etc. any tips or ideas ?

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Hi mamas 💕
I was hoping to do an appointment in person to see how prams worked.
However, I’ve had a difficult pregnancy where I went on for a follow up scan at 22 weeks which resulted in a 6 week stay in hospital. I’m now back at home but fully on strict bedrest (just going to hospital appts only). Gutted my pregnancy isn’t what I expected but happy I’ve reached 28 weeks now 🥰
Any recommendations of prams/travel systems? We are having this one thing gifted, so ideally I’d like to try buy in Black Friday Sales for a good deal.
Any pointers would be greatly appreciated! 🙏🏼

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How did everyone deal with the 1st illness? Baby boy is 6.5 months old and has caught his 1st cold. Snotty and a cough. He seems to breathe fine when napping (contact naps) but at night it's awful and we are up most of the night. I've got the vapour plug in, baby Vicks coming today and olbas oil. Any advice on how to get everyone a better nights sleep? He seems to be up all night and napping all day 🤦

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my little one is 6 weeks 3 days and isn’t smiling yet. whenever he is not asleep he is crying and never seems to be happy. my eldest is now 5 years old so I can’t remember if that’s still normal at this age! anyone else?

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My baby is almost 11 months old and he has contact napped since day 1. I’ve decided I want to stop these now so I get some time to myself and can start getting stuff done around the house.
He still feeds to sleep. I tried putting him down this morning after 10 minutes of him falling asleep on me and he woke up instantly. I’ve replicated his room to bedtime so he has his white noise machine on and his light projector but he still won’t sleep. He doesn’t particularly like being rocked either. Any suggestions?

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Can I have a bath? I’m keeping the water warm enough that it’s enjoyable but not scorching hot. It’s one of the few things I really enjoy😂🛁
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