2 mum family

Hello! I am a 2 mum family with a little girl on the way! My partner is 38 weeks pregnant and I am so excited to meet her I am just nervous as she still doesn’t feel like mine. We done AI and found a donor and I was involved in the whole process but I think I am struggling with the idea of she doesn’t have any of my DNA. I was just wondering if there was any other mums out there who felt the same way? And how did you come to terms with it and was it easy to bond with baby when they was here?

I obviously know for a fact that she is my baby and I will always be her mum, I just always have in the back of my head that I am not biological to her and it upsets me and I want to over come that so I can be the best mum she needs 🫶🏻

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I’m the carrying partner of a two-mum AI donated family, so don’t have relevant experience, but just wanted to send my love to you

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