Forever the mug

Oh girls I feel like a right mug. I was seeing this guy for a month and a bit, really liked him. He ghosted me last month and he’s just posted about being on holiday with his girlfriend. I feel like a mug, stupid, an idiot. I believe I didn’t deserve to be just tossed to the side, into the unknown like I was nothing. I said this and he’s removed me. It’s so stupid I’m just so gutted because after a devastating breakup the year before, I was so happy I finally found someone I liked and now I’m back to being alone. I mean it must be me right? People just use me as a stepping stone to get what they want. I don’t think I can keep going in this circle. I’m sorry I know this is a rant I just needed to get it off my chest … to a bunch of strangers 🤣🙈

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I’m so sorry this happened, been there, it’s frustrating and hurtful, sending hugs! You deserve better

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First off, dont blame yourself. Im sorry you were taken advantage of. There's someone out there for everyone. My only piece of advice is to remember that people will treat you how you think you should be treated. Being taken advantage starts off small then gets bigger and bigger. Before you start dating again, realize your worth and dont settle. Best of luck, hugs

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Someone better is coming your way trust me, don't lose faith. Forget about this guy he's not thinking about your feelings. Just laugh at the fact that someone else is falling asleep under him 🤣

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Forever the mug

Oh girls I feel like a right mug. I was seeing this guy for a month and a bit, really liked him. He ghosted me last month and he’s just posted about being on holiday with his girlfriend. I feel like a mug, stupid, an idiot. I believe I didn’t deserve to be just tossed to the side, into the unknown like I was nothing. I said this and he’s removed me. It’s so stupid I’m just so gutted because after a devastating breakup the year before, I was so happy I finally found someone I liked and now I’m back to being alone. I mean it must be me right? People just use me as a stepping stone to get what they want. I don’t think I can keep going in this circle. I’m sorry I know this is a rant I just needed to get it off my chest … to a bunch of strangers 🤣🙈

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