Any neurodivergents in Ohio looking to become friends 🫶

Hey I'm in Northeast Ohio. Definitely willing to connect and hang out!

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AI Flyers

Maybe it's just me but I'm so sick of seeing the ai flyers for text groups 😭 just pop on canva and make one yourself it's really not too hard they have templates and everything I don't understand the ai obsession

baby daddy relationship rant lol

He was recently offered a job at a strip club though and I can’t lie I’m way too insecure to continue any sort of romantic relationship with him because of that.

We separated 5 months ago (mutually) and have been recently having lots of sex and still going on dates as of almost 3 months ago. Our daughter is 10 months and we’ve gotten comfortable with the idea of us working out as a family again.

It just sucks though bc this company he was working for got a new contract for a buy out and he’s going to be let go. He had 4-5 weeks to prepare himself to get into another position at work but instead he decided to wait until the last minute and unfortunately now there’s no availability left.

Two days ago he got an offer for a different job & texted me asking me what I thought about him working as a bouncer and indoor security at a strip club for minimum wage + tips and it made me SICKK. Nothing wrong with strippers or clubs tbh, but the idea of the loml working with mostly naked women makes me want to throw the fuck up!

Turns out it’s a very private and exclusive club with only 1-2 clients per night who spent upwards of 5-10k per night which only makes me think this is a pay for sex kinda place. Not even just a regular club.

He asked me what I thought. I was honest about it making me sick but I did try to not come off as too jealous or insecure and said how the money would be the same at a restaurant (if he wanted minimum wage + tips so bad, be a server hello?!)

His response was he doesn’t think he fits the aesthetic of a server rn. I didn’t have anything else to say to him after he tried convincing me it’s a great and perfect idea. And honestly, if he wants to do it, I am absolutely not one to stop him. I’m not his wife. But I don’t know if I can pursue a relationship anymore & try to grow from what we have to something beautiful and solid. I just can’t.

He asked me if I’d hate him if he did it and I said I don’t know.

Because I don’t! I don’t want him working at some sex club going from $40 an hour to $16.90 but he’s actually treating it like his only option. Am I throwing away a family over something stupid? Should I just get over it? 💔

Lack of support and cheating

Hey guys, I have a dilemma. My boyfriend and I been together for 7 years. I voiced to him how I’d like to get married multiple times before having a baby and it just didn’t happen that way. After giving birth about a month ago I just been feeling like i should have a ring on my finger by now. The least you could have done was make me your fiancé even if it’s not the perfect ring. You could get me something better later, at least I know Im your future wife. But anyways, 2 nights ago his phone dinged at 4 am last night and it just had me suspicious but thought nothing of it. Then that morning I went on his phone to specifically get my babies one month photos and I saw a photo of him shirtless. I know damn well he ain’t send that to me so I ended up looking through his phone. Now he sent this to his “coworker” and I seen a couple more messages from others. I addressed it and he played victim as if it’s not a big deal. So I was like ok bet, now he thinks everything is ok but it’s not. Now I’ve been also feeling a lack of support when it come to our baby girl as well. Do you think I should pack my stuff up and the baby to leave to go to my mom for 2 weeks without him knowing and not answer his calls? Because he thinks everything is cool when I’ve been feeling hurt and not supported.

Group chat

Created a group chat all is welcome, but you have to be a little active and outgoing, a group chat with people who don’t know how to communicate and continue a conversation makes for a really dry group chat.

Message me with you number if you wanna join.