I found out I was pregnant with our miracle baby the start of October which ended in miscarriage on Saturday 💔
I feel so lost and like there will be no way forward from this
It took almost 4 years to conceive with having PCOS and my partner having low motility/morphology
I’m terrified of never getting pregnant again, especially naturally, and also of miscarrying again
Has anyone been in a similar position? 💗
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I’m so sorry for your loss :( I know how hard it is.. especially to be okay to start trying again. Unfortunately the anxiety never goes away.
When I finally got pregnant again, I think I was anxious til like 20 or so weeks. Even though the blood work looked good & my first ultrasound at 11 weeks was good.. I still couldn’t believe it and it took a lot to finally be excited for my pregnancy
Take all the time you need to grieve this recent loss 🫶🏻 Hugs momma 🤍

I’ve been there! We really struggled to get pregnant and then found out my husband has got awful sperm and very little of them we was told we have 1-5% chance of naturally conceiving. I then got pregnant in July 2022 and miscarried in August . We gave up but I suddenly got pregnant again at the end of August/start of September . My son is now 3.5 and loving life. We decided we wanted to try for a second (and last) baby early 2025 so we went for fertility tests again and my husbands sperm came back worse we was told we had ‘less than 1% chance of conceiving naturally’ so much so they told us they couldn’t even recommend ivf with his numbers , ONE MONTH later I found out I was pregnant. I miscarried at 8 weeks and we thought that was it we couldn’t go through the heart break of loss again so gave up but exactly a month later I found out I was pregnant again. Our ‘less than 1%’ became a 0.003% set of spontaneous factual twins who are 5 months old.
Don’t give up, you’ve got this!
Hey mums😊Is anyone else struggling with how their C-section looks? I feel like mine has created this little shelf that makes my lower belly stick out and the area right above my vagina look puffy or fat. Almost like my stomach and pubic area form a “B” shape.
It’s not that noticeable but I can notice it 😩 I don’t know if I’m explaining it properly, but it’s really messing with how I feel about my body.
Does anyone else have this?
Does it go away?
Any suggestions, products or anything that could help?
I understand I’m 3 weeks post surgery and all, so is still healing and my body is recovering.

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How soon did yall have sex after a c-section i wanna wait out the recommend time but it feels like its been MONTHS and im not gonna lie shower time has gotten pretty hard to handle 😂

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I am currently 33weeks, 5 weeks left for delivery, I initially choose induction as my Doctors do not want me to go into labour naturally due to health reasons but since I made that choice at my 28weeks I have not had peace of mind, I have become more scared and nervous, and I am considering choosing a C section at this time. I am having my appointment with my Doctors on 9th Nov I don’t know if is late to change now. Has anyone had to change birth plan at this stage? How easy was it for you pls?

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I’m being induced today at 39 weeks due to a medical issue. I wasn’t induced with my first I went into spontaneous labour at 38.5weeks. Can anyone give me some positive words of encouragement who’s had inductions before as I’m a bit nervous 😬
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Woke up today feeling off, think maybe I have just been overdoing it as I have a nearly 2 year old. Husband was home today so I was able to stay in bed a lot of the day and rest. I have been feeling nauseous and getting cramps in the top of my bump. They only last 5-10 seconds but are quite painful and have been happening on and off all day. I've now woken up at 1am with a stomach ache and gone to the toilet with really loose stools. Bit worried if this is a sign of early labour. I'm only 32+5. Anyone had anything similar? I can feel baby moving about okay.
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14 weeks today.
Does anyone else have a bump yet? I understand you show quicker with multiple pregnancies but I already feel like a beached whale and the pelvic pain has already started 😭 although I have been doing a lot of walking recently.

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