Anyone else not doing a 1st birthday party??
I am a mum of 2, I have a 4 year old daughter and an 11 month old son. We had planned a family party at our house with all our families but having had a kitchen renovation recently which has gone way over schedule it looks a bit of a mess. We also have a lot going on and decided to cancel the birthday party. Instead we are taking him to a farm just us and having a quiet celebration with just my husband and my daughter. Someone told me that i was being silly and I shouldn’t care about the kitchen etc which made me feel really guilty.
Is anyone else not worrying with a birthday party? I didn’t realise it was too much of a think for 1st bday parties!
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I’m a mum of 1 and not having a party! Just dinner with family! It’s also my father’s 65th birthday the day after my daughter’s 1st but I still opted for a dinner rather than even a joint party!
Do what makes you feel comfortable, it’s about you spending the day with your little one rather than other people XX
we are having a “party” as of such for my little boy but havent paid to hire anything and just meeting at local club but its more just so that everyone sees him else we would be scheduling visitors for a week 🤣 on the actual day of his birthday we are going to a wildlife park just me him his dad his auntie and his cousin x
We’re having a party but purely because of the fact that our friends little girl was born the same day as ours so we can split the cost and have a joint party. Otherwise we wouldn’t have done one at all! X
It’s my little one’s birthday today, no party here, just seeing family and celebrating at home but we are also going on holiday at the weekend so a party just wasn’t on the cards this year! X
Mum of one and no party here!
Me and my husband are taking our boy of to an animal park and for breakfast.
We are still in the trenches and we want a day we'll enjoy too and a party, especially in our house is just STRESS!
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