Issue with orgasm

Does anyone’s partner/bf/spouse have an issue ejaculating with non penetrative sex? It hurts my ego that my partner can only finish with penetration and nothing else. Is this a thing and how do we even solve it? Bringing it up/not bringing it up doesn’t seem to change anything.

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My baby boy is 16 days old and my partner has been really distant. I’m recovering from a 99th percentile baby and emergency c section. During paternity leave he started picking up side jobs and was still going out to meet friends (he did normally ask but in a way that felt like I couldn’t say no?). And before you ask, a lot of the tasks were for him to afford things for his car.
I do all the nights at the moment as I’m trying to breast feed and my partner sleeps through cries and has fallen asleep with him in his arms. He’s been working 7am-7pm the last two days on a side job meaning he’s out around an hour and a half either side of that, and has vocalised it’s easier for me as I’ve got “all the time off” (my maternity leave) and he’s working.

We keep getting into arguments where he feels like I am over baring when he is looking after our boy and insisted he needs to be allowed to do “trial and error”, I feel like he’s not willing to learn about our baby and I really don’t think he even cares about how much work, sleep deprivation and physical turmoil I’ve been through. Is this a regular stage of parenting and adjustment or should I be really worried?

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Thinking of getting Ewan the dream sheep for my newborn. She had some restlessness in the night and settled when I played white noise from my phone, but I don’t want to leave my phone playing all night so was considering buying the Ewan sheep. Has anyone used it and what are your experiences/opinions? Is it worth it? Is there much difference between the Ewan the dream sheep and the Ewan deluxe?

Intimacy in relationship

Hello mamas,

Posting as incognito because I feel ashamed to post with my profile 🙈 I’m also ashamed to speak with my friends or family about it, hence, here we are 😅

I know many of us don’t want to talk about so I will do a poll. 🙌 of course feel free to comment if you are okay with that x

How are you getting on in terms of intimacy in your relationship?

Myself and my partner used to have a sex like 3 times a week, at least. Sometimes twice a day! 🙈 so yeah, our sexual life was pretty good I would say. Sometimes very spontaneous and unplanned , sometimes wild and planned 🤷‍♀️
We are over 4 years together and we’ve been very good until last year. The more ‘pregnant’ I was (read bigger belly 🤣) the less we were intimate. We spoke about it and I just didn’t have a need for whatever reason and my partner was scared about the baby 🙈 yes yes there was no danger for the baby but we still decided to have it less 🤷‍♀️ and we both were okay with that!

I thought after pregnancy things will go back to normal but nope. Now we are having 2-3 times sex but per month, not week…

I really like the way my partner look. He is very sexy and every night when he takes shower I observe and I really do like what I see. ( before baby I would just join him and things would happen but now with baby it’s just impossible…). So yes, I find him attractive.
I do also believe there is nothing wrong with me. I think I bounced back pretty quick after pregnancy and tbf he might even like me more now 🍑🍈

I just think we became parents and no longer partners if that makes sense…
Sometimes I don’t even want to because I’m upset that I had to be all day home and do everything and he just wants to relax after work - this is just an example. And ofc I won’t even initiate anything. Him, having responsible job and being stressed after work not helping also.
I don’t know… it’s like we are okay with not having it but deep inside we are not okay?? And when we talk about it, it changes for few weeks and then goes back to what it was..

I’m just trying to see if anyone else has the same problem. Is it going to change after some time? Or that’s it? When you become parents your sexual life stay this way 4ever? 😒

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