Has anyone declined the heel prick test? How did that go over with the medical team at delivery? If anyone has more than 5 kids, does just one have one of those disorders it tests for? Is it really 1 in 500 kids that have a one of those disorders, that seems like a lot of kids.
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I wouldn’t skip it. I’ve heard a lot of people recently talk about how that test which is literally just a heal prick and doesn’t harm the child at all save their child’s life. If they didn’t get that test then they would have had no idea their child had something it tests for and probably would have never been able to figure it out. So i definitely would do it

Why would you decline it ????

Why would you decline testing your child for diseases that could affect their life or be fatal if untreated?

Nope, never declined. Vitamin K and heel prick were a non negotiable

I would absolutely not skip it. But yes, only one child in a family can have a genetic disorder. And yes, it is actually a lot of kids- it's just not "newsworthy" because sad kids don't make money- kind of like childhood cancer only receives 4% of federal funding.

We got it with both, they didn’t even cry during it. I rather know then not know

Why declined. It’s an extra screening. It’s safe for the baby too

but why decline it? babies will experience pain in their lives, the more important thing is that they learn you're there to comfort them.
Any else’s hit that 4 month sleep regression? My little one can be flat out but the second I put him down… ping! Eyes wide open 🫠🫠🤣🤣

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Hi everyone
My baby girl is 4 weeks old today. She is BF and bottles of pumped milk. She has about 90ml per feed every 3ish hours.
She has started being a bit sick during or after feeds (can be up to an hour or more after feeds). I pace feed, wind and burp during the feed, keep her upright for 30 mins after etc.
When she lies flat on her back (and mainly at night), she constantly clears her throat which is quite wet sounding, sounds congested in her nose, grunts, groans and strains.
Could it be a bit of reflux? Heartburn? Something else? Normal baby behaviour haha?
She is otherwise a very chilled and happy baby, and the sick/spit up doesn’t seem to necessarily bother her.
Thanks!
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Hi guys. Long story short, my mother in law has always been extremely off with me. Initially I thought it was a personality trait and cannot expect everyone to be bubbly as you. But she did many things that were just awful such as, when I was pregnant vomiting in her home she completely ignored me. I cooked for her and her sons and she went and ate in her room & didnt thank me. When we had our wedding at my wedding I went up to dance next to her and she walked off (so much more that I could list). Anyway, she lives in our home country so as soon as I came back to London I forgot about her. I had my baby and my husband convinced me into bringing her over for a month to ‘help me’ as my own mum has a physical disability so can’t help me much. First two weeks she I was cooking, cleaning & looking after my baby. She even WOKE ME UP FROM A NAP to change my baby’s clothes. My husband spoke to her and she improved but would still do weird things and like completely blank me, or make comments to make me look like a bad mother. My husband started to be horrible so one night I snapped and called her a b*** to him. He called a family meeting the next day with her and my parents and exposed me to them all. She even said to my parents ‘why should he wake up to give baby a bottle he works hes tired’ ‘why should he change nappies’ ‘if she’s incapeable of looking after her baby blah blah’. I have practically been a married single mum since baby has been born he is now 3 months old. I can’t believe my husband exposed me and told his mother I called her out of name. This marriage is completely failing, i have a 3 month old, I don’t know if I can ever look at him the same or be a part of their family after everything I have been through. I know I shouldn’t of called her out of her name but I was at my width ends I felt bullied and abused and like she was doing everything to make me look like a shit mum… WHY WOULD HE TELL HER?
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Any other FTMs who are just SO done with all the information out there? I've got a 6 month old and I feel like I've done nothing but stress and try to problem solve everything when it comes to my baby. There was once a time when I didn't even know what false starts, wake windows or sleep pressure were and now I feel like the constant overload of information from "experts", especially on social media, is making me lose touch with my own instincts. Obvs it can be helpful when you're thinking, "wtf is happening right now?" but today I've decided I'm going to switch off all the noise, try to be more present with my baby and just accept that there will be ups and downs. Whether that's sleep, weaning or days when she only wants to be held. She's literally only just arrived in this world and there's so much happening in her little body and mind. Not everything needs to be a problem to solve.
I've also decided I'm not going to force a strict routine, because I've never even managed to stick to one for myself, and frankly the thought of it stresses me out. She's a perfectly happy baby and while I might still be a bit sleep deprived at least I won't be stressed about every little thing on top of it!
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Hey mamas,
Day 5 pp and me and my husband are trying to start on a nightly schedule as until now babygirl has been waking up almost every hour from midnight till like 6am. ((He’s also trying to already have her on a sleep schedule although she’s only 5 days old but anyways)) how did you guys do it? And do you have any tips and tricks for when it’s time to start her on a sleep routine?

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My baby is 5 days old, my milk came in on Friday and my boobs are huge, solid rocks ever since. My baby isn’t breastfeeding from me so I’ve been using formula and occasionally pumping and feeding her my milk, I’m trying to either dry up my supply or combi feed moving forward. Has anyone experienced boobs being unbearably big and hard and been stuck between drying up and carrying on.. any suggestions to make the milk supply less/manage the enforcement pain is welcome please! 🙏🏼 x

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