My little one is almost 4 months old and we are still and always have been in contact nap territory. He is rocked to sleep every nap and then will sleep on me for a good hour or so every time his wake window finishes but I need him to start napping in his next to me during the day so I can start doing bits for myself again. He transfers perfect when it’s night time and will sleep through from 9pm until 5:30-6am but during the day he will wake 10-15 minutes later and will not settle back in his next to me. Please tell me I’m not alone in this? & has anyone came out the other side😣😣
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We're the same and with the addition of wanting to be held and carried all day too.
Have you tried a carrier for the day time naps? Gives them the closeness of the contact naps and you your hands back to be able to do things? I do admit that going down in the cot once or twice would be wonderful to give some body autonomy back though

You're def not alone! Same for me - but at least one of the contact naps is in the carrier. Pram? no way. Cot during the day? lol. Cot at night for the first part of the night and co sleep sencond part... I can't wait for 6 months and move her into a floor bed and see if that helps - my boy was the same and it worked wonders!! xx

I use the carrier for some contact naps in the house. You can’t do everything you want to do but it’s handy for getting some jobs done xx

Same! Every.single.nap is contact as she feeds to sleep but wakes when I transfer. She used to sleep in the pram, but now because shes so much nore alert she cries when I put the hood down 🫣
I started to think i was creating a bad habit, but you know what we will really miss these contact naps when they grow up, and babies NEED the comfort that they receive during these contact naps so im happy to just ride it out until she grows into the next phase. Which they will do by themselves 👌💖

Following for ideas as in the same boat. Mine is starting to get frustrated with the contact naps as she's starting to turn a bit but she still won't go in her next to me during the day but I will miss them when they end but sometimes I just want to be able to pee or answer the door or phone.

I was really struggling with this - the only thing that worked was replicating her night time environment. I started putting her down awake and when that doesn’t work, she will fall asleep drinking a bottle. Sometimes she will go straight to sleep, others she will spit out her dummy a few times and I have to go back in and replace it, but she eventually goes to sleep! I just kept persisting and we got there in the end! Now she never contact naps and I really would like her to now and then 🤣

I was contact napping for a WHILE, you have to be persistent in the putting bubba down when they're asleep, my baby now sleeps in his next to me right after I put him down and I get a deeper better sleep at night

My little boy still contact naps atm (going to start putting him in his cot for the first nap of the day when he hits 4 months at the end of this month) but my little girl who is 3 was like this at first, it’s completely normal as they can’t connect their sleep cycles yet, which is why I only ever put her down at first for the first nap of the day when their sleep pressure is the highest, one day it just clicked and she slept in the cot for over an hour and then everytime after that! One day it will just click xx

I’m in the exact same position! My boy sleeps so well through the night and will only wake up for a feed but goes straight back to sleep. However in the day time he will only ever nap on me. As soon as you put him down he will be awake within 5 minutes and cry for me to come pick him up. It’s soo hard to find the time to eat, clean, wash🥲
Hi, my daughter is about to turn 5 months old. And I am struggling with postpartum depression. I always feel sad and feel like crying. My mind never feels fresh, and I am not able to sleep for more than 4-5 hours because of the baby. I always stay sad. I forget to brush my teeth, I don't feel like changing my clothes, I don't get time to bathe, I am busy with the baby 24x7. I keep overthinking all the time. I have forgotten how it feels to feel normal.My husband stays out for 12+ hours for his job. When he comes home and sees me, he gets angry about how I am living. He thinks all of this is in my mind. But doing the same thing 24x7 is enough to drive anyone mad. I don't know how people enjoy motherhood, for me it is not easy. I love my daughter a lot, I can take care of her 24x7, but I need 7-8 hours of sleep which I am not getting, and because of that I feel like I am going mad. I don't know what I should do. I don't feel like doing anything. Can anyone suggest what I should do?

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My baby is 5 days old, my milk came in on Friday and my boobs are huge, solid rocks ever since. My baby isn’t breastfeeding from me so I’ve been using formula and occasionally pumping and feeding her my milk, I’m trying to either dry up my supply or combi feed moving forward. Has anyone experienced boobs being unbearably big and hard and been stuck between drying up and carrying on.. any suggestions to make the milk supply less/manage the enforcement pain is welcome please! 🙏🏼 x

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My baby is 4 days old and my mom has been staying with us. My husband works in an office upstairs and works late through the night. you can hear him talking but both doors are shut so it’s light noise.
She said the noise is going to affect his brain development and needs to be really quiet through the night.
What are people’s opinions? I personally disagree but interested to see what other moms think ☺️x
Also when changing and feeding him through the night, is it best to do it with no light and no talking?

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Has anyone declined the heel prick test? How did that go over with the medical team at delivery? If anyone has more than 5 kids, does just one have one of those disorders it tests for? Is it really 1 in 500 kids that have a one of those disorders, that seems like a lot of kids.
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My little one is almost 4 months old and we are still and always have been in contact nap territory. He is rocked to sleep every nap and then will sleep on me for a good hour or so every time his wake window finishes but I need him to start napping in his next to me during the day so I can start doing bits for myself again. He transfers perfect when it’s night time and will sleep through from 9pm until 5:30-6am but during the day he will wake 10-15 minutes later and will not settle back in his next to me. Please tell me I’m not alone in this? & has anyone came out the other side😣😣

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We are currently really struggling to find a nappy that doesnt leak over night. My little boy wears size 6+ nappies but they are always leaking at night time. We have tried Tesco, Morrisons and aldi ones. Just wondering which ones people find best, we have tried putting him in a size 7 but there to big on him then.

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