Idk what to do any advice

Okay I’m 5 months with my IUD the marina and lately I been feeling nauseous and more tired then usual cuz I do work but I been spotting for 2 days and it stop and my Brest hurt wearing a bra or even a sports bra but I’m not sure if it the side effects from my birth control or idk what do you guys think I should do I also wanna say I been also having my lower back hurt so much these past 2 weeks

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Bf wants to move in and idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. I have never lived with a significant other. I have a strong belief that we shouldn’t live together until we’ve agreed to marriage, because if they relationship ends it can be disruptive to regular life, ie trying to find a place for one of us to live.

Well my boyfriend is now in a really bad place. His roommate stopped paying his half of their rent several months ago, and he came home last month to find he packed up and left with no notice. The landlord is now coming to my bf for the missing rent and utilities, totally to thousands of dollars. My bf said his half was all paid, but the landlord says that doesn’t matter since both names are on the lease and both are responsible. Of my bf doesn’t come up with the money, he’ll be evicted. So he’s been trying to take more hours at work, but most of his job has been automated so there’s really not any work. Also, he’s been using PTO a lot to help me with childcare. He always said it was never an issue, but this morning a coworker told him he overheard they’re going to be laying him off because he’s been using too much PTO, so my bf went to his boss directly and asked about it, and they said yes, and then told him they also have a right to deny him unemployment. He’s really stressed now about money, and he’s scrambling to find a new job after ten years with this company. But he needs some time to get things together and wants to move in with me. He also stated directly that moving in is not a temporary thing for us, and if he moves in we are endgame and he won’t have a place to go if I kick him out.

I want to say yes, and I can see the benefits, but I’m also a little nervous about it. This is a big change that feels like it’s going to happen very fast and I’m not sure what to do about it. We have been fighting a lot lately over money since his landlord got on him, and I feel like that’s also affecting my judgment right now, and making me lean towards no, but I also don’t want to leave him high and dry. I know he genuinely doesn’t have anyone else.

We’ve been together 4 years. I want a ring. I don’t want to play the wife without being the wife. What do I do?

telling exes mum i’m pregnant

I’m around 4 months pregnant and just told my ex fiancés mum that i’m pregnant and open to having a relationship with her as the grandmother of my child.
We weren’t particularly close but she was warm to me when we were together.
My ex told me he wanted nothing to do with the baby and I assumed he would never tell anyone, maybe only his sister.

For a bit of background he is 21 and not very independent, in contrast I live by myself and financially support myself independently. His mum knows a bit of how the relationship went and wasn’t happy with the way he treated me at times. Yet quite defensive of him.

I sent her the message about 12 hours ago and I haven’t heard anything back I’m worried if she thinks i’m an idiot or if she is really upset.
I hope I made the right decision to tell her, as I do think she would be a great grandmother.

Anyone else been through this? Should I be worried ?

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Hiii everyone! 💗 I'm 22, from Italy, and mum to two little ones a 1.5 year old and a 1 month old! 🥹
I thought I'd join this group to meet other mums around my age and hopefully make some new friends!

I love coffee dates, shopping, going for walks, cute little cafés, taking pictures and just having a good chat about anything and everything 😂
Would love to get to know you girls, share the chaos of motherhood and maybe meet up sometime! 🫶🏼💕