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My husband cheated!!!

Been gone this whole time military and finds the time to fall in love with another woman who I’m sorry is just downright ugly and looks old. I can’t find anything to salvage even if i wanted to. I think i already made my mind up.

Bf wants to move in and idk what to do

My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. I have never lived with a significant other. I have a strong belief that we shouldn’t live together until we’ve agreed to marriage, because if they relationship ends it can be disruptive to regular life, ie trying to find a place for one of us to live.

Well my boyfriend is now in a really bad place. His roommate stopped paying his half of their rent several months ago, and he came home last month to find he packed up and left with no notice. The landlord is now coming to my bf for the missing rent and utilities, totally to thousands of dollars. My bf said his half was all paid, but the landlord says that doesn’t matter since both names are on the lease and both are responsible. Of my bf doesn’t come up with the money, he’ll be evicted. So he’s been trying to take more hours at work, but most of his job has been automated so there’s really not any work. Also, he’s been using PTO a lot to help me with childcare. He always said it was never an issue, but this morning a coworker told him he overheard they’re going to be laying him off because he’s been using too much PTO, so my bf went to his boss directly and asked about it, and they said yes, and then told him they also have a right to deny him unemployment. He’s really stressed now about money, and he’s scrambling to find a new job after ten years with this company. But he needs some time to get things together and wants to move in with me. He also stated directly that moving in is not a temporary thing for us, and if he moves in we are endgame and he won’t have a place to go if I kick him out.

I want to say yes, and I can see the benefits, but I’m also a little nervous about it. This is a big change that feels like it’s going to happen very fast and I’m not sure what to do about it. We have been fighting a lot lately over money since his landlord got on him, and I feel like that’s also affecting my judgment right now, and making me lean towards no, but I also don’t want to leave him high and dry. I know he genuinely doesn’t have anyone else.

We’ve been together 4 years. I want a ring. I don’t want to play the wife without being the wife. What do I do?

Work ? Why isit so HARD?

Im looking for a part time job 2/3 days a week, i have been looking for over 6 months and nothing, ive applied for SO many.

telling exes mum i’m pregnant

I’m around 4 months pregnant and just told my ex fiancés mum that i’m pregnant and open to having a relationship with her as the grandmother of my child.
We weren’t particularly close but she was warm to me when we were together.
My ex told me he wanted nothing to do with the baby and I assumed he would never tell anyone, maybe only his sister.

For a bit of background he is 21 and not very independent, in contrast I live by myself and financially support myself independently. His mum knows a bit of how the relationship went and wasn’t happy with the way he treated me at times. Yet quite defensive of him.

I sent her the message about 12 hours ago and I haven’t heard anything back I’m worried if she thinks i’m an idiot or if she is really upset.
I hope I made the right decision to tell her, as I do think she would be a great grandmother.

Anyone else been through this? Should I be worried ?

are my feelings valid ? 😵‍💫

hey me and my bd was together for 2 1/2 hrs before we had our son who is currently 3months going on 4 months. when i was pregnant he showed so much love and was happy etc. as so i though he was until i was 8months pregnant he decided he no longer wanted to be together anymore. ofc i felt sad but we was still living together and he was telling me he wasn’t emotionally available and feel like he need to just focus on his self and get his self together before the baby comes and work on his self not only for him but for us as a family. at this time he wasn’t really hanging out with friends cuz he was working 10/12hrs shifts 5days a week and he said he felt like he haven’t been able to do anything and felt alone and wanted to make friends ( male and female ) and have fun while he still can before he finishes truck school and have to hit the road. ( he’s 21 , im 24 )

while broken up he was telling me he still loves me and want to marry me and how he already brought a ring and not worry and the female friends he made or strictly just friends and they only hang out in group settings …. atp i’m 9months pregnant .. mind you we still live together, cuddle every night , still do everything normally and he still kisses me tells me he loves me and even had sex. but i had a suspicion that he was lying about the female friends. i just couldn’t shake it, he logged me out his instagram the day after we broke up but his password was still the same so i logged in and found hella females he was talking to and planning dates with and hanging out with. i even texted one of the girls and found out they did sexual things together and even found out he had sex with another girl … i felt so hurt and betrayed … are my feelings valid ? for feeling so hurt and crying broken hearted ? even though we wasn’t together at the time ? … now he wants to work back together towards a relationship and marriage? but am i wrong for holding onto what he did , even though he wasn’t together???? 😕

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