Starting to be ok with it
My husband has been ignoring me for 5 days. This isn't a new thing, but probably the longest its gone. Im usually stressed and trying to talk to make things better. But this time im just over it and honestly starting to enjoy the distance. Its making me think divorce is probably the best option- he may be even thinking the same. Im sad to think about things ending and really would hate for my matriage to end. but im also realizing how much I've been dealing with. How did yall cross the bridge and decide to finally leave?
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For me, i couldn't eat, and lost way too much weight, and hair, i was so stressed out, i felt emotionally responsible for him, but started to realize i needed to be emotionally responsible for myself, and that's when i decided to end it once and for all, that was after 12 years of marriage.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Why has he been ignoring you?
The silent treatment would have had me halfway out the door already. š© I genuinely feel like thatās a form of emotional abuse, especially when itās intentional. Why canāt we be adults and communicate instead of ignoring each other for days?
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Starting to be ok with it
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