First hair cut - feeling annoyed and upset
What would you do?
My partner took our little girl to my mums, after just coming to pick her up, no heads up, so that ruined the plans i already had with her, they have just got home and i found out my aunt cut her hair. Her first haircut and i missed it because no one told me, didn’t even ask if it was ok, i have made it clear so many times i want to be there when she has her first haircut cut. And this wish was denied. I feel upset that i missed it but mainly annoyed. Am i being silly?
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I would have been upset too. Im the only person who cuts my kids hair. Id be agitated too especially that being a special moment for you and your little.
I’d be fuming
No, this is so inconsiderate. I’d be so upset/mad/shocked/revenge shave everyone’s head
Sorry this happened to you 🥺❤️
No I'd be cross. What a violation. Are you are dad together ?
Omg I would be upset and annoyed too. What was the need for someone else to cut her hair? And surely they should have had the sense to at least ask you before doing something like that! I’d be livid and wouldn’t want her to even go there without permission.
I’d be angry if someone even gave my daughter something new to eat without checking with me first…. Cutting hair is such a personal thing to parents … it’s horrible they didn’t check with you or include you in this.
Totally justified with your feelings. I would totally be blocking them from seeing my daughter for months after. Especially since you clearly have mentioned it many times
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First hair cut - feeling annoyed and upset
What would you do?
My partner took our little girl to my mums, after just coming to pick her up, no heads up, so that ruined the plans i already had with her, they have just got home and i found out my aunt cut her hair. Her first haircut and i missed it because no one told me, didn’t even ask if it was ok, i have made it clear so many times i want to be there when she has her first haircut cut. And this wish was denied. I feel upset that i missed it but mainly annoyed. Am i being silly?
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