Female orgasms

I always thought it was like a myth that woman could orgasm from just penetration, obviously it’s possible from oral or stimulation on the clitoris during penetration, I’ve came that way many times and I thought that was the only way..But this time it felt different and I don’t ever know if I’ll cum like that again, I was really horny this time because we haven’t had sex for a while and last night he was too tired but wow this was intense and it felt like it lasted longer too, maybe because it was a different position who knows but has anyone came from just penetration, I know everyone’s vagina is different and some people never have experienced orgasms during sex and others do all the time, but i wonder why this is the first time for me.

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Ofcourse it’s not a myth! It’s so weird I never was able to before I had my son, since having him I have a few times and it’s been amazing

I've had orgasms from oral and penetration. The first time I came from penetration it was very different and more intense. I can only come from penetration if I'm on top or doggy idk why but those two position get me every time. Also idk why but after having my daughter I feel like if there is a g spot in the vagina I guess it came out more I've been able to come more times than before?

Definitely not a myth, only happened with my partner I’m with now. Also once I had my son my body does things it didn’t used to !

There’s been a few times with different positions but oral and on top gets me every single time, always!!

yes, same here, my orgasms come much easier since after the baby, no idea why!

I orgasm from oral and penetration, especially when I am on top it always makes me orgasm like crazy 🙊

It’s not a myth my man makes it happen like at least 5x every time we have sex😂 in almost any position. I think it just takes the right person tbh!

Not a myth my husband was the only one to make me orgasm even with missionary on top oral doggy even way and to find out there 3 spots beside playing with my clit

After reading these comments I can’t wait for sex after having a baby lol

Cowgirl is easier to achieve it.

It take a while for some women. Some women can’t cum from penentration at all. But also take into account that it could be your partner or the sex too!

I’ve never had issues with orgasms from penetration alone unless the sex wasn’t good! 😅

Women are capable of several types of orgasm. Those are the clitoral, vaginal, g-spot, and anal. You can stimulate several at the same time. It makes for an intense orgasm. 😁

I usually can only orgasm from penetration, I find it’s deeper and more satisfying vs clit for me

For me its opposite before my son sex was amazing I could orgams everytime every way and alot of the time multiple soon I got pregnant and didn't know I was I couldn't feel anything 😩 I was hoping after my son it would all come back as before I could squirt and everything and it hasn't it's like my g-spot has gone. My partner had tired so many times to find it 😭

Not a myth at allllll !!!! I was always able to cum from penetration but I had to really allow myself to be submerged into the moment but since having my son sex has just reached new heights.. I don’t have to clear my mind or be in a mood it just happens so much more organically and will keep happening over and over again. Like at this point we both have to pass out to stop. I’m Not sure what it’s about but Me and hubby been happy asf.

Until husband, I had never had an orgasm from pentetration or from oral. So I think it definitely depends on your partner.

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