Kleptomaniac‼️
I’m not sure how to say this, it’s pretty embarrassing hence the incog, but I’m at a complete loss.
My husband is a total kleptomaniac!
I’m finding it so difficult and uncomfortable whenever we go out because he just can’t help himself. It’s always petty stuff, he doesn’t need it half the time, and even then it’s not like we can’t afford it. But he just can’t help it!
Sometimes I catch him doing it and shoot him a look without being to obvious but he thinks it’s funny. Once we’re out the shop the same conversation/lecture happens where I ask him why he’s doing it and that he needs to stop, but he laughs it off. Other times I literally don’t see a thing and am in complete shock but I aways feel embarrassed.
He’s been caught once or twice but nothing serious has happened. One of these days I can see him getting into a lot of trouble for it but he can’t see it that way, he gets such a kick out of it.
What do I do?
What should I do?
hey ladies 🖐🏻
I don’t know if I’m the one that’s being to much but I’m currently in a 6 year relationship with the father of my kids. we recently had our 1 month old in March which is our 3 child. Ever since adding a 3rd baby it has been nothing but rough.. I don’t have my partner through all of it I’m a SAHM currently until I go back to work once our 1 month old turns at least 5 months but anyways, we recently got into a bad argument I believe Friday night and I finally expressed that I don’t feel valued, or respected by him and you ladies know what he said? “ I don’t value you nor have respect for you. You’re a phenomenal mother at home but outside of the home you’re nothing “ I’m currently not driving and I’m almost 30 years old which I understand his point of view I have been studying and by the end of this month I will be getting my license. but anyways he’s always stressed out, always on his phone. I feel like he will never understand me nor my feelings, or even have respect for me nor value me. It’s so hard to know when one day he tells me “ I’m sorry you’re valued and respected it’s just hard to say it “ and then the next “ I don’t respect you or value you at all. “ mind you he does have a problem with drinking ever since I met him in 2019 he doesn’t have both parents in his life both are junkies especially the dad, he’s the black sheep of his family. Every problem he’s had he goes straight to drinking at least 8 or 9 tall boys even when he gets off work he goes and gets a couple beers which rightfully so but I’m just at the point that I have been done I tried to tell him that we don’t connect, we don’t express ourselves, we don’t keep a conversation going anymore, we don’t have anything in common. but it seems like he just hates his life and he’s bringing me down with him.. he’s had that lingering his whole life he hates his life not his family but his life in general. I finally want to be at peace and be happy!
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