Helpful Resources for Parents of Children with Down Syndrome: What to Know & Where to Find Support

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Holli Sheahan

Mar 21 2024

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5 min read

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Medically reviewed by Nicola Enoch,

CEO: Positive About Down Syndrome & Down Syndrome UK

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If you’ve just found out your new baby has Down syndrome, you might be experiencing all sorts of emotions — joy, love, worry, and a whole lot of "what now?".

You're not alone.

There are mums on Peanut just like you, who know that having a child with Down syndrome brings both challenges and incredible rewards.

And, of course, there are incredible communities and resources out there ready to support you and your child.

No question is too big or too small, and remember, there's no such thing as a wrong emotion.

So if you’re new to all of this, or you simply want to get some more info so you’re prepared, we’ve got you covered with these Down syndrome resources.

In this article: 📝

What is Down syndrome?

What is it like to raise a child with Down syndrome?

Is there anything special a parent can do to help their child with Down syndrome?

When is Down Syndrome Awareness Day?

What support is out there for families of children with Down syndrome?

What is Down syndrome?

Let’s start with the basics: what is Down syndrome, and why do some people have it?

Down syndrome is a naturally occurring genetic condition caused by an extra chromosome.

Babies with Down syndrome are born in every country to parents of all ages, races, religions, and backgrounds.

Whilst people with Down syndrome share some common physical characteristics, each is a unique individual with their own strengths and weaknesses, character, and personality — each influenced by their families, friends and life.

Just like everyone else.

What is it like to raise a child with Down syndrome?

What is it like to raise a child with Down syndrome?

At Positive about Down syndrome (PADS), we know what it’s like raising a child with Down syndrome.

We are parents who understand the reality of parenting a child or young person with Down syndrome, and we know that while there may be challenges — as there are for any parent.

We also know and are proud to say that our children are loved, valued members of our families and communities, and we wouldn’t want to be without them.

There are lots of stories by parents of children with Down syndrome, sharing every element, so you know a bit more about what to expect.

Feel free to read our stories to see that while many of us had worries and concerns, we now lead happy and ordinary lives.

Is there anything special a parent can do to help their child with Down syndrome?

Is there anything special a parent can do to help their child with Down syndrome?

Absolutely — but they’re essentially the ways any parent would help their child.

Every child is different, whether they have Down syndrome or not, so what would be helpful to one child might not be so helpful for another.

It’s all part of this parenting journey — we learn more about our children as they learn more about the world.

So what can you do to help your child with Down syndrome?

Love them unconditionally, celebrate their strengths, and support them in reaching their full potential!

If you’re not sure where to start, here are a few tips:

  • Be an advocate: You're your child's biggest champion! Don't be afraid to ask questions, seek out additional resources, and fight for their needs both at school and in your community.
  • Focus on abilities: Every child with Down syndrome shines in unique ways. Celebrate those talents, foster their interests, and help them build the skills they find exciting.
  • Connect with others: Join support groups and find other parents who get it — like on Peanut and Positive about Down syndrome! Swapping stories, tips, and just letting each other vent is truly priceless. There's comfort in knowing you're not navigating this alone.
    When is Down Syndrome Awareness Day?

When is Down Syndrome Awareness Day?

World Down Syndrome Day is held on March 21st each year.

Why March 21?

Well, it was chosen to signify the uniqueness of the triplication (trisomy) of the 21st chromosome which causes Down syndrome — the 21st day of the 3rd month.

In 2024, World Down Syndrome Day will be on Thursday 21st March.

World Down Syndrome Day 2025 will be on Friday 21st March.

What support is out there for families with Down syndrome children?

What support is out there for families of children with Down syndrome?

Figuring out where to turn and what to do next can feel overwhelming, especially with so much on your mind.

You may be worried and afraid, unsure of your future holds and what life will look like.

At Positive about Down syndrome (PADS), we understand, and we’re here for you; you are not alone — we’re run by parents for parents and parents-to-be.

Imagine having access to real stories from other parents who understand exactly what you're going through.

Need information on early support, navigating the education or healthcare systems, or just connecting with other people who get it?

You’ll find it at Positive about Down syndrome (PADS) and on Peanut.

Whether you're still expecting your babe, those first precious days as a new mom have arrived, or you're further down the road, there's a non-judgemental community ready to share advice, resources, and offer a warm, supportive space.

Remember, no emotion is a wrong emotion, no question is a silly question.

Want to find out more about resources for parents of children with Down syndrome?

There’s a wealth of info at Positive about Down syndrome.

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