Toddler and 7 month old

I need advice. My daughter (3 in may) is so rough with her brother (7 months). I do my best to not over react to her behavior, my husband is another story. But she is constantly pulling on his arms/legs. Or pushing his head or pressing on his back. It’s not life threatening but I can tell she is just testing limits.

But I don’t know what to do or say anymore. I tell her that she could really hurt him and that’s it’s not okay, and sometimes I will move her to her room to take some space if she isn’t listening at all and keeps doing it.

I am just so frustrated. I keep correcting her, but I don’t want her to feel like a bad kid, I know she is learning, her brother is crawling so he is getting into “her” toys more and he is requiring more of my attention to keep him out of things so he doesn’t swallow something he shouldn’t.

I thought it was jealousy, but I try to give her lots of one on one time and we go on a lot of outings. It doesn’t seem to do anything. She has her very sweet moments and I try to point out how thoughtful she is in those moments.

Anyone else been here? Help.

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