Would you find that weird?

So I was telling my older sister that my friend is talking to my husbands brother and my sister was like “oh yeah they both look alike and they’re both good looking ”.

Meaning my husband and his brother are both attractive. Why did she need to mention my husband?

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She’s probs not meant it in any bad way. If anything it’s a nice thing and would rather her say positive things than not very nice things. 🙌🏻 xx

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100% depends on your relationship with your partner and also with your sister!
If there's never been any trust issues I wouldn't even bat an eyelid to it!

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It depends on how your sister is. If she is cheerful and positive about life, likely meaningless.

But if she tends to give passive aggressive remarks, this is another one.

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It is not that deep🤣

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I think a lot of people are attractive that I don’t have the intention of sleeping with. My sisters boyfriend is attractive, it’s just fact haha, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to say

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It's not that deep. You can acknowledge that someone is attractive without being attracted to them specifically.

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If it was me and my sister I would take it as she was being nice. As opposed to saying only he was good looking and, your husband isn’t when they have the same genes. I think it’s polite.

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I don’t think it’s weird to recognize that someone is attractive. Your husband is hot, be proud of that!

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she does! She mentioned he has big muscles to me once which was weird. She never liked the idea of us getting married in the first place

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Ive called my brothers ex wife hot before 😅 zero intention of getting with her but it was more a compliment to both of them lol

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No one on here could possibly understand the situation or context better than you. To us it seems like a harmless comment, but for you to ask, my guess is she’s made other comments or has given you an off vibe like this before?

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I'd take it as a compliment personally

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As others have said, it depends on your relationship with your husband and your sister. Do you overall have a good relationship with your sister? Is your marriage to your husband overall healthy and happy?

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Definitely agree with you know your sisters intentions better than we do. I as an older sister, would totally compliment my younger sister’s partner nonchalantly. Doesn’t mean I want to sleep with him. People can be objectively attractive.
BUT if your sisters… overly friendly, handsy/touchy, compliments a lot & flirty with your husband, then yeah, you know she’s jealous or will try something🤷🏼‍♀️😅

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It’s sounds like you’re either insecure or you have trust issues. There’s nothing wrong with what she said unless she said it in a sexual tone.

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I think the real issue here is YOU clearly found it weird and why is that?! 👀

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Do you think your sister wants your husband? Your comments imply she's into him and didn't support your union.

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