Dummy Dad Does NOTHINGGG.
Right So The Guy I’m having a Baby for is Eritrean 🇪🇷 & My baby is going too be Jamaican & Ethiopian. He’s been here for 10 years now Still A Dummy so too say I’m over it He can’t Bring any new ideas, Knowledge or Information too me He doesn’t do Research , Writing Just watching Bullshit in his own country But You came too a Country & Your Sitting Around doing nothing Nor Adapting How London Lads Move. Researching Jobs , Job Descriptions It’s Frustrating cause I bring the Energy & Vibes & I’m Over it. I had too Punch him in the face bc he snapped at me just for telling him look behind us at that Guy that just pulled up in a Car Right Behind me… saying “I don’t want too look” ??? Just Insecure. He does nothing Doesn’t Cook , doesn’t Gym. Show off his Skills NOTHINGGG. I don’t need him too Be there. I can 100% look after my Baby My Self.
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Guy your having a baby 'for'? Not with??
Punching him in the face?
Belittling him online ??
Not to sound rude but what you have posted makes you sound like the issue here 🤷♀️
Wdym "the guy you're having a baby for"? Not "with"
Other than that, how long have you been together? It sounds like you have a stronger character than his. Why are you with him if you don't like him? You shouldn't try and change someone if you don't like them. Just move on and be happy.
I'm sorry to read your going thru this I can hear the frustration in your voice, I'm jamaican born too so I understand when you that he is just sitting round not putting no effort into nothing.
However from what you've explained it sounds like you've already clocked out. And from someone who's already got kids, have a baby don't heal or repair/fix nothing it just highlights what issue you found to be unbareable more.
You mentioned about punching him in the face, u cannot put your hands on someone then be surprised why he ain't changing, that's not the environment you want bringing a child into the world because the cycle will repeat.
My advice is to, really think what is best for you 1 2 5 years from now and act on it. Because a man will only change when HE wants to.
Take care
If a man made this post you would've already been reported for abuse. And the responses above would've been so different.
I'll be the to tell you that you're disgusting if you think punching someone in the face is okay 🤢 do him a favour and remove yourself from his life.
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Right So The Guy I’m having a Baby for is Eritrean 🇪🇷 & My baby is going too be Jamaican & Ethiopian. He’s been here for 10 years now Still A Dummy so too say I’m over it He can’t Bring any new ideas, Knowledge or Information too me He doesn’t do Research , Writing Just watching Bullshit in his own country But You came too a Country & Your Sitting Around doing nothing Nor Adapting How London Lads Move. Researching Jobs , Job Descriptions It’s Frustrating cause I bring the Energy & Vibes & I’m Over it. I had too Punch him in the face bc he snapped at me just for telling him look behind us at that Guy that just pulled up in a Car Right Behind me… saying “I don’t want too look” ??? Just Insecure. He does nothing Doesn’t Cook , doesn’t Gym. Show off his Skills NOTHINGGG. I don’t need him too Be there. I can 100% look after my Baby My Self.
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