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Hi my husband works 40 hours in a week and our bed life isn't like it was what should we try and do any advise

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Try new things, step out of your comfort zone… toys, lube all help too

We use toys but he says it make him feel smaller then normal

like his penis size? Or makes his manly hood feel smaller? If it’s the first try getting a small vibrator, and if it’s the second let him control the toys.

Look into pure romance and if you guys smoke(weed). Smoke and have fun! You'll thank me later ;)

He does control we even got one where he has the remote plus the whole pot thing we would but he falls asleep right after he smokes thank u guys

Try a clit vibrator while he’s inside you as well!

Does he have any toys? Get something for him maybe:

I mean he has a pocket p that's really it

Maybe some lingerie ? I was never a fan of it and found it useless after until I had both my kids. We both now love it and find it works heating things up. And maybe have movie nights in your own living room, cuddle each other during the movie etc I know for us that heats up things and makes us connect after long busy days rather than just getting straight into bed

I totally agree low key I’ll run to the room and pretend like I had it in the whole time 🤣🤣🤣 like I was waiting for you kind of thing 🤣

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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This is a late night vent session obviously but l make it short. My boyfriend and I went to a basketball game in Orlando. His sister was babysitting our son. We come back tonight for her to say he slept for 6 hours and just woke up. Now what type of shit is that. I’ve been feeling lately like no one cares for me or helps out in the way I need them to. People want to see you smile but don’t try to find the cause when you’re not. I’m an only child and my mom lives far. I feel very alone even with the dad involved. I feel alone and like I’m doing it all. I can’t even imagine having another kid which I want but this life here is tough

Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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I have lost alot of friendships the last year and 4 months my babygirl meand the world to me but I would love to talk to some other mamas and hopefully find a bestie that doesnt mind me not responding quickly but will also be keen to call or meet up I'm based in Christchurch, New Zealand. A bonus if you dont mind ranting from me and also might have a partner that could get along with my fiance

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Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.