Want more kids?

Is this anyone else's first baby? Did you think you would want more kids but now maybe questioning yourself? I wouldn't say my daughter is particularly hard but she's a baby. I love her very much but I don't really know how I feel about going through this again. It would probably destroy my husband and I's relationship if I didn't agree to another child but I don't feel that's a good reason to have another. Everything is already so hard and expensive these days.. I just don't know. Plus I'm breastfeeding and that's alot. I think I need to be done with that too. Anyone else in this boat?

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@Courtney in the same boat if I may how come you didn't want kids? Now that you had one do you want another one?

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@Michelle lol yes. I guarantee I will never miss a BC pill again 😂

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This is my first and I know I can’t handle having any more. The Postpartum period is way too difficult. I don’t know if I could survive it a second time. My husband is ok with just having 1 kid. We originally wanted 2. But my mental health is more important to be an ok mom for our present child

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Maybe keep her baby stuff after she put grows it and wait a few years and see how your both feeling then if you want to be done once she’s on more of a routine /sleep schedule. Then if you want another you have some baby stuff but if you don’t you can get rid of the other baby stuff

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I think that’s a super normal feeling with a 4 month old. Don’t feel like it’s all or nothing, maybe in time you’ll feel ready again, you’ll miss it. You have no idea.