Orgasms

24, never had an orgasm had 2 serious relationships, is something wrong with me?🤣

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Your not the only one, never had an orgasm from other partners 🫣

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Ditto, what Abi said. It took me until I was 18 with a vibrator to have one at all. Some women are just more sensitive/complicated than others. Also, men at your age generally don’t know what they’re doing really. Go find someone over 30 ;)

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Theres lots of reasons why a women wouldnt have an orgasm. Most likely due to the clit not being stimulated enough. Or maybe too much stimulation. Its gotta be juust right lol try going slower, or faster. Or changing positions. Riding him might work best, if he likes to grind. If hes only about the in and out action then idk, maybe use yours or his fingers.

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Can you get yourself there from clitoral stimulation with a vibrator?

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Use a vibrator, I can almost guarantee you will have one! Then you might have a better idea of how to guide your partner to give you one

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Believe it or not but a lot of women including myself don't always or ever orgasm through intercourse alone. I have done but it takes me forever. Try stimulating your clit whilst having intercourse and you will soon experience an orgasm. You can use a vibrator or your fingers. It's completely normal and there's nothing wrong with you 🙂 I would suggest trying on your own to figure out what feels good and then giving it a go with your partner, once you've given yourself an orgasm you will know how to best guide your partner to what you want x

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Hormonal contraception, such as using the pill can impact the bodies ability to orgasm. If you can't climax yourself with a vibrator as others have suggested and you are on the pill it could be worth coming off from it to see if that makes a difference.

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