Do all men Masturbate after marriage too?

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Probably not all but I would say a lot/most. Masturbation is healthy and normal. I’ve been married nine years this year and I do it and I’m like 99% sure my husband does too lol.

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Umm what 😂😂
Why would marriage stop it? It has nothing to do with your partner and everything to do with you and self pleasure. It's natural, I don't know why you feel you have to react any way.

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It’s very normal. Every person is entitled to explore their own body in privacy and do so without judgment or shame. I think you need to explore your own feelings and insecurities if this bothers you. Of course the exception would be if he was masterbating but not engaging in a sex life with you. Then you both need to look at your relationship

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I would say yes.

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My fiance has never stopped. I don't mind because he needs it more than I do.

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My husband and I both masturbate. My husband more than me lol. But if I'm in the mood and my husband isn't (which is rare) I need that relief.

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Absolutely. Women do too. It’s completely normal and healthy.

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I caught my bf haha at first I felt a type of way but read that it’s healthy so I eventually got over it haha

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My husband has never not even before (it’s not his thing he’s just not a fan of it) but plenty of men do it either because they enjoy it or because they can’t/won’t bother you as much for sex in fear of either getting turned down or asking for it too many times in a day if that makes sense

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Yes it’s normal lol 🤦🏼‍♀️

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I do and my husband says he doesn't because I'm a stay at home mom and always in the mood but if he did I wouldn't be upset or blame him. We've made videos incase he needs or wants too.

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No not all

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I have a very low sex drive compared to my husband so I assume he would do it quite often lol

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It's very normal

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How would you guys react if they prefer it over sex?

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I would find it quite hurtful but would try and have a discussion with them about why and how you can both work to improve your sex life together.

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I would probably be hurt but then ask him what he likes better about it. Spark a conversation about changes to try..maybe he doesn't want yo hurt your feelings

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I would be upset if he preferred it over sex. This is definitely something you need to talk about. Masturbation is healthy. And it shouldn’t be shamed. But if he’s not having sex with you because of it there are probably underlying issues .

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