Spaghetti Carbonara 🍝

Carbonara is seriously one of my favorite pasta dishes and believe it or not, it’s SO easy and quick to make.
I always substitute with bacon and whatever Parmesan cheese I have in the fridge. You can also add a bag of frozen peas and carrots. Mushrooms are very tasty but it’s the creamy sauce that makes the dish.

Ingredients:

1 pound spaghetti
6 slices pancetta or guanciale or bacon, chopped
2 cloves garlic minced
3 eggs
1 cup parmesan cheese or pecarino ramano, shredded freshly ground black pepper

Check out this TikTok video for a visual on how to cook.

ENJOY 😊

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