Where the shoes on the other foot

Hubby says some wild things and most of the time I just brush it all off or quickly change the subject. Tonight he asked me randomly something about how many times I want oral sex and I was busy looking at something on my phone and misspoke and said twice. Which he took as me saying I had it twice today. Once with him and then with someone else. This man actually believes that I either went somewhere or had someone come over to our place to give me oral sex. First off, eew!! That's nasty to me. I'm 5 months pregnant. Why would I do some shit like that? We have a healthy sex life. We have it every day. Why would I need someone else when he gives it to me every day?? It just doesn't make sense. His drive is way higher than mine and to be honest I can do the job myself either with my fingers or my rose toy so what would I need someone else for?? It's insulting for him to even believe that I would do something like that especially when he's the one who's been on dating apps talking to random women. So he's giving me the silent treatment tonight. Wonderful. Smdh.

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Going back to work

My maternity pay is about to stop and I just can’t bring myself to go back to work! I am self employed so no rush back but we need the money.

I have postnatal anxiety and can’t leave my baby for more than an hour never mind with someone else other than my mum.

My mum works shifts which change every week so I can’t commit to anything. Does anyone know what type of job I could do without pushing my boundaries too much?

Looking for a lifetime best friend. 🥰

My name is Angel, I’m 28 mom of 3. I have a 4 year old daughter, 2 year old daughter, and a 4 month old son. Looking for a best friend.
I love art, being outdoors in nature. I love being a mom more than anything. I’m a little bit introverted but will open up the more I get to know you.
I’m an aspiring content creator and am actively working to better myself and my kids lives. Would love to find a bestie for me and possibly my kids.

I’m in the Los Angeles area 🥰

Noob question about re-entering society

Hi, very very basic q from anxious about to be first mum. When did you feel up to going out to socialise after the baby or even just out for a coffee? How soon were you getting back into the world?

Need some reassurance I’m not crazy

Yesterday was my baby daughter’s baptism. I have a 20 year old step daughter. She’s been staying at my mother in law’s house since college is out because she is able to use my mother in law’s car to drive around. When my step daughter got her work schedule at the ice cream place last week she called me and said she was put on to work the baby’s baptism even though she requested off. I said it was probably an oversight, call your boss asap and let her know. Well she told my mother in law she didn’t want to go to the baptism anyway because she didn’t want to be around her father, my husband. (There has been some jealousy since baby has been born) so she never had her schedule changed. My mother in law told me she will tell her she needs to call out or find her own way to work (because she wouldn’t have my mother in laws car) because I informed her how upset I would be considering I do A LOT for my SD. Day of the baptism I get told step daughter pushed work back to 3pm leaving exactly a half hour for her to come back to the house after the baptism. They came with a family friend/neighbor. Were at our home for a half hour after the baptism, took pictures, ate and then left. I’m so upset with not only my SD but my mother in law. There were so many other ways that could have been handled. My SD could have ubered to work. They could have taken two cars. My SD could have called out like my mother in law said she was going to tell her to do. She could have atleast pushed work to 5 so she could be here for 2 hours. I feel like my mother in law didn’t want to be here either and used it as her excuse to leave “oh I need to bring her to work” … no you don’t… she drives your car lol. My mother in law has been calling me all day and texting me and quite honestly I don’t know what to say to her. We get along quite well and talk daily but I’m so upset. They were the only other guests invited besides the god parents. I could have saved so much money, time, energy and we could have just taken the god parents to a nice restaurant for cheaper than what I spent to make the day so special. Not to mention my baby is named after my mother in law, and wore my mother in laws original baptism dress from 67 years ago.

Saying it here cause I can't say it outloud

I have devoted my life into being a wife and a mother
I regret nothing but it does leave heartache in some ways
Recently I tried to break back into the job field. Oof girls this one's been filled with disappointment. I cant find anything over minimum wage. Quickly realized I had no job skills. I had been carrying my husband's dreams. My kids needs. And now I feel like im looking across a lake i have to swim.

Need friends

Hey moms! I have an 11-week-old baby girl and I’m realizing how lonely postpartum life can feel sometimes. I don’t get out much and would really love some mom friends to talk to and connect with.

I’m in south Nampa if anyone would want to grab coffee, lunch, or hang out sometime! 😊 picture of my LO