Going back to work

My maternity pay is about to stop and I just can’t bring myself to go back to work! I am self employed so no rush back but we need the money.

I have postnatal anxiety and can’t leave my baby for more than an hour never mind with someone else other than my mum.

My mum works shifts which change every week so I can’t commit to anything. Does anyone know what type of job I could do without pushing my boundaries too much?

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Universal credit - child element - London uk

Everyone has been telling me payments are going up from this month. I've just checked my statement. And yes.. the allowances have gone up indeed. BUT the cap has also gone up.. and I've been deducted even more.. so I'm not even sure in which world that is making sense.. because now I'm left with even less than I started with. I literally have £300 for myself and 3 kids for an entire month for food and bills etc. This is really not enough. My benefit cap is £748 and my children are supposed to get £911. Is this even correct? Is your cap the same being single with 3 kids please. I'm already struggling with food and bills 😩

Sex

Im a month postpartum and for about two weeks, i have been feeling alot more in the mood. I keep telling my partner i want to have sex. But hes scared about me getting pregnant again and so am i. But he wont wrap it up. Any advice?

I just have to get this out here somewhere I’m soooo sick of people getting within a few miles of class consciousness and collective liberation and then taking a hard left and scapegoating Jewish people instead, or trans people

Or black people or women or whatever group the rotating arrow of right wing scapegoats lands on next. No, candace Owen’s, Tucker Carson, Marjorie Taylor green, nick fuentes etc are not waking up they are GRIFTING. And if your anti colonialism starts and ends with Israel but you glaze people who tout the great replacement theory and the “america first” agenda that’s literally white Christian nationalism you’re not anti ethno state you’re just confused and highly gullible. Make linking all human rights and liberation the litmus test I beg of you

Sexy time

Is sex with your partner as hot and passionate now as it was when you first started dating?

Advice needed

I have an almost 2 & 3 year old & recently found out I’m about 7 weeks pregnant . Instantly got overwhelmed bc I am the default parent. My bd has also been under stress with the news, he’s working more hrs. He gives me money every now n then that I use for necessities or else I save it.

He got drunk the other day & was taking out his frustration on me, Told me to get rid of the baby & to gather all the money up he’s given to me & to consider myself cut off. He later in the day apologized when he sobered up. Every time he get mad he asks for his money back & leaves me with 0. Im at war with myself rn whether to keep this baby or not💔 due to bad circumstances w bd. Will I be able to handle 3 fr, Or should I stand tf up, leave him , keep the baby & raise my kids on my own like I have been . I just know it will be so so hard

Looking for a bestie for me and my kiddo

Hi guys I’m Dani I’m 38 years old my baby girl is 5 months almost 6 her names sunflower and we call her sunny! I love laughing music nature I live in Tucson Arizona or I wouldn’t mind just mom friends on line