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Hola me gustaria contarles que me pasó hace unos dias una amiga me dijo q tengo q ponerle calcetas a mi bebé por q les entra el frio, yo le explique que pues ya no era asi y me dijo q hay cosas q no cambian y que antes si cuidaban a los bebés. Saben como me hizo sentir eso? 🥺 me hizo sentir q soy una mala mamá. Lo peor esq ella ni bebés tiene

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Hola Alexandra! Primero que nada, eres la mejor mamá para tu bebé, y te aseguro que tú estás más informada que ellas sobre todo si no tienen bebés. Te comparto por experiencia propia, que en general la gente hace comentarios (sin pensar) porque se “preocupan” (algunos de manera genuina, otros por compromiso) de nuestros bebés. Lo que yo he hecho con esos comentarios es darles por su lado, y sobre todo con lo de los calcetines les digo: ¡ay! ¡No otra vez! Este bebé se quita los calcetines y luego los pierdo, ya llevo x pares de calcetines perdidos… lo bueno es que hace calor y no creo que coja frío por los pies. Y AHÍ DEJAN DE INSISITIR jaja, se que no es como lo que quisiéramos, pero a veces es mejor La Paz mental que explicarles porque uno toma x o y desición

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Hay amistades que he perdido xq pienso diferente en la crianza y bueno he tenido que pasar la página , primero es mi hijo y cada persona incluso tus padres tienen que respetar tus decisiones.

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muchas gracias 🤭 si aplicaré ese tip de darles por su lado

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Lo que yo hago es decir... en serio? No sabia ! De manera genuina. E igual seguir haciéndo las cosas a tu modo. Se darán cuenta que te vale mad....y dejarán de darte consejos 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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jajajajaja me encantó tu comentario. 🤣 tengo q hacerlo !

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