Sometimes MY mum shows me that she’s truly a cunt

This might be too harsh but sometimes she just really cuts me deep - probably because it’s a reminder that she’s never cared for my opinion (and in turn made me feel uncared for). She’s staying at my house right now and I’m struggling to get my 6 month old (second child) to sleep - I think she had a disaster nap in the car on the way home from the park earlier and is now out of whack. My mum says do you think she needs Panadol maybe she’s got teething pain (for context my mum thinks everything wrong with a baby is teething - like every time I’m not joking) So I go no she’s not in pain she doesn’t need it. My mum then says “well how would you know?@ HOW WOULD I FUCKING KNOW WHAT MY CHILDREN NEED?! I’M NOT SURE?! She’s so obsessed with being right and everything being a personal attack that she doesn’t care how she comes across. Fuck off, you self involved cunt.

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So annoying. My mum always has something to say too and we argue about it all the time.’

Could you say it back to her? “Well how would YOU know actually?!!!!” They can be so irritating sometimes can’t they?!

That’s like my partners mum she think she knows best all the time like to the point where I’m wiping my little boy or girls face after dinner because they have got food around there month & she always says just leave him his a kid I’m sorry if I want him to have a clean face & not let the lick them all the time because they have got food around their month than that’s what I’m going to do! Your not the only one I would be saying something if you feel like she is always getting in the way x

I have had to recently cut my mum out of my life due to stuff like this as it actually got me doubting on whether I was being a good mum or not. There is obviously other reasons aswell but I couldn't understand why she would butt in when it came to my LO but she didn't and still doesn't care about my opinion x

This morning I told her how she hurt me and that she should just assume I probably don’t need her input unless I ask because turns out I know my baby Her response was “well how should I have known why she wasn’t going to sleep, you didn’t give me the context” Hello and welcome to MY WHOLE POINT Cue insincere apology and await repeat of exact behaviour in 2-3 weeks

It’s actually insane how many of our mums and mils think like this!?? Thought I was alone 😭 my mum looks after my baby because my partner and I work full time, and she is wonderful with the baby but makes mine and my partners life a living hell 💀

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