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Mi bebe nació hace dos meses, he tenido muchos problemas con el en especial por su familia cuando supuestamente viajo a cuidarme en el post, fue lo peor que nos pasó, pensé que yo le caía bien. Lo único que hizo su madre y su hermana fue

Hacer nos pelear…. Desde eso no se si es el pos, pero ya lo detesto cuando lo veo y no lo deseo sexualmente pero en el fondo lo sigo amándo.

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Lo del deseo sexual es normal y sobre todo si estás lactando
También puede ser normal el que ahorita no lo soportes, me atrevería a decir que en algún momento del embarazo o post parto a todas nos pasa
Con respecto a lo de tu cuñada y tu suegra háblalo con el sincérate en cómo te estás sintiendo, a veces cuesta vulnerarse pero si el te ama y valora hará algo al respecto

Ser mamá no es fácil y todavía estar soportando todo eso no e ajusto, espero pronto todo mejore

Debes estar tranquila, en el post parto es normal sentir muchísimas emociones y sobre todo falta de deseo sexual.

Dale tiempo al tiempo

Se llama depresión post-parto, y eso va a durar todo 1 año, es muy difícil la llegada de un bebe y mas en el ámbito de relación con tu pareja. No se si son las hormonas o que pero sientes un rechazo hacia la pareja y las peleas van tiro por viaje. Yo creo que deberías hablar con tu pareja y comentarle lo que siente y que tiene que ser paciente porque hay veces que ni son sentimientos tuyos, es una etapa muy difícil

creo que la depresión port parto se caracteriza por más cosas pero igual si deberías ver si tienes ya qué hay mujeres que incluso les dura mas del año y les empeora
Un psicólogo puede diagnosticarlo y ayudarte 🤍

Es un proceso del post parto empezamos a odiar a nuestra pareja es algo normal después de 40 días se pasa eso o si no ve con un sicólogo para que tengas un apoyo

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Is this clever or cruel?

My husband and i were talking and with social media and the internet in general being a terrifying dumpster fire, we are trying to figure out the best way to keep our son safe while still teaching him how to safely be online and moderation.

We landed on the idea of giving him the 90's kid treatment. A computer in the living room for us to keep an eye on what hes doing online, and once we feel hes mature enough to hang with friends without adult supervision he gets a flip phone. When we feel he is responsible enough and he earns and saves up the money for the physical phone, case, and screen cover, then we will be happy to take him to get a smart phone.

I thought this was air tight, but now my brother says its cruel to give a kid a flip phone, and besides he can just use his friends phones at school.

My husband and i remember a time before the internet, and we remember having complete access to something no one understood yet. We saw unspeakable things and are always battling with the urge to put the phone and social media down. I dont want that for my son, especially with his brain so vulnerable still.

If your partners parent passes away

And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?

Not my situation!

Partner no longer wants baby #2

Before our son was born we originally both wanted minimum 2 kids but we were hoping for 3-4. My partner found the birth traumatic to watch and also struggled a lot with the newborn/baby stage. He no longer wants to have any more children and it’s completely breaking my heart. I need another baby. We’ve spoken about it a lot and the options. He said he wasn’t COMPLETELY closed off to it so I asked him to try and work through his feelings and reconsider his decision. He eventually said he definitely doesn’t want another. I know that I will always want one and my feelings will never change. Do we have to break up or does anyone know anything else I can do to help change his mind? Has anyone else’s partner said this and then changed their mind? I don’t want to break up because I adore him and our life together and I’d hate to split up our family for “selfish” reasons and make my son miss out on having both of us together but I just don’t know what to do

Nursery funding

My child turned 9 months last week. I applied for government funded hours nearly 2 months ago and so well within the required timeframe for the April term, however upon receiving my first invoice without the funding applied and having questioned this, I have now been informed that the stretched funding doesn’t start until 4th May.

Has anyone else been told it won’t start until May?

The government site states it should start from April 1st, and so I intentionally set my nursery start and return to work as the start of April for that reason, knowing that I wouldn’t be able to afford the nursery on my sole income without the funding

Jealous of my husband

I’m so jealous of him and it’s making me resentful. We have a ten week old and I’m jealous that he is at work all day. I’m jealous he can leave for lunch and actually eat an uninterrupted lunch. Take a phone call uninterrupted. Chat with a friend he runs in to uninterrupted. Even go to the bathroom when he wants uninterrupted. He comes home from work when he wants. He’s not on a set schedule. Some days are late some are early. It depends on when he’s done. I’m jealous he can come home at 10pm and shower, eat and go right to bed uninterrupted because I already have the baby asleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything house wise or baby wise because I’ve done it all. Meanwhile I’m covered in puke and crap and smell like rotten milk. When he is home he is VERY active and helpful. So it’s not that. I’m just jealous his world hasn’t changed and mine has I guess. This isn’t something he’s doing wrong so I’m not sure how to get past this. I wish I could keep him home all day because that’s how helpful he is, but I understand he obv needs to work.

Calpol

My mum has just given my 4 year old calpol because he asked for it. He isn’t poorly (although was last week, been fine this week) he just likes the taste of it. My mum didn’t check, didn’t ask, just gave it to him and when I’ve questioned her she said “he asked for it”. Then quizzed 4 year old who said he asked for it because it tastes nice.

How would you react?