What would you do
When I first met my bd, money was never issue cus he lived with his parents but when we moved in together it’s been a issue. Hes always living pay check to pay check. Even asking me for a few dollars here and there. we go half on everything and I can hold up my half no problem even have extra to pamper myself but more often than not he struggles to keep up with his half but still be buying weed and what not. We’ve got into a few fights over this and I’m so tired of the same old shit every month. He’s never really able to buy me anything or treat me to anything besides food here and there but I just don’t see this going far a relationship like this is not sustainable. It makes me really sad cus we got a newborn one week away and I just see us fighting over him not having enough to buy his daughter shit either n looks like imma have to be doing most of the spending.. I haven’t been wanting to cook past few days and he can’t even buy any take out cus he’s broke waiting for his next check 🥴 I’m so stressed out. I’ve asked why he doesn’t look for a better paying job and he just stuck in his comfort zone😵💫 I just got laid off too and on unemployment so I won’t have as much money anymore either and it’s making me spiral thinking about everything ☹️ been tryna save up for a car but I can’t cus all the extra money usually goes to paying for shit when I wanna go on a date or pay for anything outside of bills😡 idk what to do. Ik money isn’t everything but on top of that we’ve gotten into a few physical fights while pregnant and I forgave him for the sake of tryna have this family I always wanted but idk shit is hard man
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When you say physical fights you mean he hit you while your pregnant?
never with a closed fist but yes pushed, choke, and slapped. self defense I guess cus I hit him first everytime 🥴🫠 toxic I know
Yeah you shouldn’t hit him neither but I’m not judging though . But he still can walk away especially since you’re pregnant at the end of the day. I would neverrrrrrr hit a pregnant woman everrrrrrrrrr .But you should also not hit him as well. I I think y’all need some counseling . But I see y’all not in the best financial situation. Do you think y’all could take a break from each other ? Like separate for a week a so. I’m doing the same me and my bf don’t physically fight but I feel like he doesn’t put much effort into our relationship and I’m going to let him know when he gets home I want a break. Your situation is more complicated though your pregnant and about to have a newborn soon and you need all the support you can get. I wish I could offer some better advice but I really feel like he needs to go back to his parents house until he ready to man up. May I ask how old he is? I feel like he’s young probably 19 or early 20s.
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